Wedding Diet Thread....

Rups32

yay! go on.. was going to ask you ladies anyway

Rups32

I have major insecurity issues (as i am sure you have ALL worked out). I get insanely jealous etc. I need to worry about me and not him so much. hehe. Sorry everyone, i know this is a diet thread.

codemonkey

Rups32 wrote: »

i am the same now. hes like its so and so's leaving do, one drink here and there. I said i am not doing it unless he is there!!! its my bday on Sunday so i have warned him that we are NOT doing any wedding stuff then. why are men like this? the wedding has stressed us out a bit and i wasnt too happy with him going for dinner with this 'mate' from work. but i have to deal with it. my friends during my hen do lectured me and told me to boost my confidence a bit so even if he is telling me he is off for a drink with a female, i can ignore it and worry about me. hehe.. am working on that!!

I think, just get on with it without him Rups. You'll feel better when all the placecards and so on are done and then you can make him feel all guilty :rotfl:

johannalf88

I do understand Rups. I try not to think about it, mainly because 80% of my friends are guys, so there would be some double standards! I do trust him tho, i foun another womans bra behind one of the drawers in the cest of drawers earlier this month, and even then i joke that he was cheating! I dont really consider it (we rent a furnished flat, and where it was its prob from the last renter)! Have got an issue with the hen/ stag do tho- he is stealing my friends! (ok they are his too!) but we can't have a joint as I don't want him to miss out on his stag! (plus he wants to go to Legoland!)

johannalf88

Just read the last post and I sound a bit stupid! Would like to point out it was covere in dust, and wires bent, had clearly been there for a while!

Rups32

Thanks girls.. I do have male friends but i always know the limit. That day when he went for dinner, ithought he would have some sense and come home at a decent time. He came at 12.45 and i was so annoyed. i know he was having a good time but all i could think was he is going to leave me. doh!! I am so stupid at times. if ihad more self-confidence, i wouldnt care then. maybe i should do the same to him and see how he likes it? I hate games but maybe with OH i have to??

code trust me, he wont feel guilty. well i can start on the wedding favours bags. now i am fed up and just want to get married!!! sigh

codemonkey

sneaky wee look

http://www.flickr.com/photos/60666660@N04/sets/72157627588047459/

Photos taken by friends.

johannalf88

Code- you look great! Unfortunately I can only see them on my phone, so quality is not great, but can tell the two of u look so happy! N u look fantastic in your dress! B proud!

codemonkey

Thanks. Just a quick couple taken by friends so the quality is as you'd expect.

Em88

Rups32 wrote: »

Morning everyone

Welcome back code. we missed you.. :j

well done on the loss Em.:) hints hints this way please?

i had a bad pizza night. was supposed to have only 2 slices but ordered this rustica one which was think and OH ordered me a medium and i found myself eating nearly all of it, esp after we had had a little arguement.

starting the day with a tea and my pot of granola. Have already bought some quinoa and chicken salad for after yoga so looking forward to that. not long for me now, but am getting stressed esp with OH and his social dos. grrrrrrrr

Thanks don't really have any tips I'm afraid. If it is possible to walk to work do; it means you are exercising every weekday and saving money. If I get the bus it is only 15 minutes quicker due to all the traffic and there are loads of irritating school kids on it so I enjoy the walk (may not when it starts raining though!). Plus I don't feel bad if I don't get around to doing a DVD when I get home/in the morning as I have walked for 1 and a half hours in total for the day.

As to OH not helping with the finer details I think that is pretty standard heehee. When I said to my OH that we needed to pick a colour for my BM dress to co-ordinate with everything he told me 'she doesn't need to blend in with the venue' :eek: not overly helpful heehee.

Todays food so far has been crumpets for breakfast and then carrot and cucumber sticks for lunch with mini babybel light, ryvita minis sweet chilli flavour with strawberries and pineapple. The tin of quality street is still calling at me from downstairs though