Wedding Diet Thread....

codemonkey

Aww Rups, if it helps I know how you feel. Hardly anyone is coming to my hen and I feel really sad about it. Especially after all the invitation hassle. I just want to cancel because it looks like I have no friends.

Jo well done. 1 rich tea biscuit isn't a huge transgression. Tbh I wonder about how realistic the no s thing is about absolutely no snacks. Sometimes you get hungry or life doesnt fit around the 3 meals. I know I struggle on days where I work late because I end up undereating.

Rups, I don't think muscle could be the excuse for my huge waist measurement sadly. Having said that, I'm due on next week so maybe a bit bloated.

johannalf88

My sister is organising mine! I have no idea what she I thinking. But to be honest I kind of trust her with this, she knows what I like. But I will be really pxxxxx off if people don't make the effort! It I also really unfair on who is organising it!

Rups32

ahh code def bloating then esp if u about to come on or like we were saying stress causing the release of cortisol (or something like that) that causes belly swelling. poor us women!

i totally understand how you feel about the friends and not making effort thing. I felt bad for my friends organising it as well. she even said that, that i went out of my way (as a broke student) to go with their weekend away hen dos. i am not doing one abroad. i swear i wont forget this. told OH yest and he said i have weird friends. thanks!!! oh well even if there are just 3 or 4 of us then i dont mind. i feel sad though. cows!!!

i have had to cut down numbers as for the church wedding we can only accomodate 100 so if i have to, i will cut them :-( and have family. sigh

codemonkey

Doesn't sound like they deserve to go Rups. Hugs.

Brilliant. So its also my stupid brother's fault if my dress won't do up?

Rups32

yeah blame him for that! lol. your dress WILL fit and you have to think that so it will happen. (sorry too much reading of the Secret). haha.

yeah am tempted to not invite them and save money actually. haha. its such a shame that even though i dont see these uni friends much, i thought we were still good friends hey/ in that case my bridesmaid and friend (whos married to that guy abroad) are so worth it, as no matter what i can rely on them. ohh i feel like being sad all day. thanks girls for being sweet

lovecake

Morning ladies!

Sounds like everyone did pretty well yesterday! i did Shred again last night - I know I said I was too achy to do it, but I just thought stuff it! No Pain, no gain so I went for it! Muscles are pretty sore again today, but not as bad as yesterday so hopefully I will get used to it.

Rups, that's rubbish about your hen do - but I suppose it helps you identify your true friends as they are the ones that will be there no matter what! Everyone else doesn't deserve to share in the hen do fun with you!

MsS & code! My Shred buddies! :rotfl:Haha! How you feeling today? Sore?

Well done WS on all the gardening! I bet that burned a lot of calories!

Rups32

well done lovecake. i will join u guys in the shred workout next week. am still sore from attack. andthanks for the advise. yeah am sooooo going with the 'cutting them out of my life' thinking now. :0)

codemonkey

Don't be sad Rups. You're very lucky to friends you can rely on! You're quickly discovering just how little the people who won't make an effort deserve to be in your life.

I'd come I'd I could.

Rups32

ahh thanks hon...*hugs to all*. I wish i could come for you too.

yes sadly things like these make you realise hey? I just kept thinking, i was broke and i still stupidly went to Madrid. My handbag was stolen there and i had to go and look for a police station and all my friends could think of was shopping so only one came with me, and then as i had to cancel my phone, she had lent me her phone to make a call for that and once we were back in London, and at the end of the month, she charged me for the bill for that phonecall. i was quite upset but i let it go (well clearly i havent now), and she is one of the girls sayng that we should make it quick!!! how dare she? The other friend is married to some rich guy in Richmond and shes in her own world but i know she goes out and he looks after their son. another friend wont come, because i KNOW its due to the fact that this one with the son wont come!!!!!grrrr ok ok i wil stop.. they are out.

johannalf88

We would all come! But we are the beat kind of guests- the ones you do not have to pay for!! You can rant and rave with us, and as long as we see the pics we r happy!