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Adopted or not?

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  • kelloggs36
    kelloggs36 Posts: 7,712 Forumite
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    the long one does - I was adopted and mine states adopted on it.
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    Do you have your birth certificate? If not, you can buy one from the Register Office where your birth was registered or you can order one from https://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/certificates/

    Didn't you ever ask your parents whether you were adopted? Would it be a relief to know that you are not genetically linked to your siblings?
  • vharbourne
    vharbourne Posts: 63 Forumite
    sounds like my sister but turns out i really was adopted only found out at 23 though. Dislike my sister very much and wont talk to her but love my parents like others said they chose me. My birth certificate doesnt say adopted but i was born in south africa so may be different there

    Victoria
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    by the sound of your family hun, I would bloody well hope I WASNT a blood relative!
  • happy35
    happy35 Posts: 1,616 Forumite
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    i would try and get your birth certificate so you can find out for definite one way or the other.

    either way I think your sister is very cruel and your family are probably not going to give you any answers.

    Counselling may be of benefit to you so that you can talk openly about how you feel
  • clairec79
    clairec79 Posts: 2,512 Forumite
    Doesn't the date on the short birth certificate often give it away (presuming you weren't adopted as a newborn) dh says his would have given it away as his 'birth' was registered a) in Northern Ireland with place of birth in Wales and b) was 9 years after he was born when you look at the date at the bottom
  • nottslass_2
    nottslass_2 Posts: 1,765 Forumite
    clairec79 wrote: »
    Doesn't the date on the short birth certificate often give it away (presuming you weren't adopted as a newborn) dh says his would have given it away as his 'birth' was registered a) in Northern Ireland with place of birth in Wales and b) was 9 years after he was born when you look at the date at the bottom


    It Depends on whether or not the shortened Cert is the original or not,if its a copy the date on the bottom will simply be the date that the copy was done.

    The only way is for the OP to request a copy of her Full birth cert.
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