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What would you do?

Sold an item 10 days ago for £7.99 but the buyer never paid. I emailed her about 5 days ago asking if she was intending to pay and no reply. 2 days ago I opened a case for no payment received. I've just had a message in last ten minutes saying 'Please cancel transaction - I bidded on wrong item'
Never had this before....what do I do? If I cancel will I still have to pick up the ebay fees? If I don't cancel though will she get an unpaid item strike? I don't really want to make a loss but don't want to make myself an enemy!!
What do others do?
Rebecca

Comments

  • pug_in_a_bed
    pug_in_a_bed Posts: 1,975 Forumite
    Let the npb run its course and make sure you block the buyer from bidding. You can have any feedback they leave removed, I believe, if a npb is complete
  • hermum
    hermum Posts: 7,123 Forumite
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    You gave the numpty plenty of time to pay, I would go through with the NPB & let her either pay or get a strike. If she bidded, (urgh, she should be banned just for that), then couldn't let you know immediately that she had made a mistake then the chances are she's too stupid to accept a mutual cancellation, which will leave you with the FVF's.
    Block her so that she can't bid on anymore of your auctions.
  • rebeccauk
    rebeccauk Posts: 296 Forumite
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    Thanks guys. Sorry to ask but how do I block her?
  • hermum
    hermum Posts: 7,123 Forumite
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    http://pages.ebay.co.uk/help/sell/manage_bidders_ov.html
    That will tell you how to do it, also make sure that your buyer reqirements are set tight, again all info on how to is explained on that page.
  • terra_ferma
    terra_ferma Posts: 5,484 Forumite
    I wouldn't do a cancellation either. I'm normally happy to go for a mutual if they make contact straight away. In this case they may well refuse it, and if so you would be stuck with fees as well as a possible negative.
    She could still pay and give you a neg, no option is risk free in these cases.
  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 74,460 Ambassador
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    My vote is also for completing the full NPB and giving the buyer a strike, I would not even contemplate a mutual. The quicker we get rid of these time wasters the better for us all.
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  • alien1234
    alien1234 Posts: 112 Forumite
    I would not cancel the case so there will be an unpaid record to the account. It cannot be a mistake as it requires 2 clicks to commit to a purchase
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