As The Workhouse Approaches....How To Do Everything To Avoid It, the Old Style Way

redlady_1

Him and FK are my kids. The OH is doing the deed. It will be tough for him as it is the end of his past life and the first thing he has lost since his wife. I suspect there will be many emotions for him tonight. I suggested having him cremated and then scatter the ashes with his wifes. She is in a natural grave marked by an oak tree to symbolise strength and being reborne so I think its fitting that the OBB goes there too.

Thanks Lanny xx

Gintotmelinda

hi all

Just popping in to say Redlady ((hugs)).

Take care

Gintot

GreyQueen

redlady ((hugs)) . So sorry to hear the OBB has passed.

jackieglasgow

{hugs} for redlady, I am so sorry to hear about Old Blind Boy, and hope he was as comfortable as possible. xx

jamanda

Redlady, so sorry. Know how I feel in similar circumstances.

jackel

. After reading your posts for a long time.This is my first and I am so nervous as I am a complete computer idiot. Thankyou all for all the tips, info.,points of view and accounts of your lives. I really enjoy your company and all the help you have given me to keep the ship afloat. Should I mannage to work out the next step and get this post sent to the right place(trust me it could end up anywere given my expertise - can't teach an old dog new tricks) I'd love to have another little dabble somtime in the future . In the meantime thankyou to you all-you really are a loveley lot.

GreyQueen

jackel wrote: »

. After reading your posts for a long time.This is my first and I am so nervous as I am a complete computer idiot. Thankyou all for all the tips, info.,points of view and accounts of your lives. I really enjoy your company and all the help you have given me to keep the ship afloat. Should I mannage to work out the next step and get this post sent to the right place(trust me it could end up anywere given my expertise - can't teach an old dog new tricks) I'd love to have another little dabble somtime in the future . In the meantime thankyou to you all-you really are a loveley lot.

You're doing fine, hun, and welcome, But it IS addictive up here!

cat_smith

(((hugs))) redlady

flowertotmum

Redlady..so sorry..(((hugs))) for you and yours..
ftm

redlady_1

spoken to the OH. He says he cant believe how peaceful it was compared to his wife's passing. He told me earlier today how when he took FK back to mine that she was whimpering and crying, not her normal attitude. He now thinks she knew what was going to happen and didnt want to go. Weird considering she was hiding in the covered litter tray this morning trying to duff OBB up - who then went looking (if he could see) for her to have a go back! What a bloody pair they are!! Still, at least he shared our Indian last night. Yes, he really did steal some of the chicken dansak!!!!!

God speed Tigsy cat x

Thanks for your wishes. They really get under your skin, animals!