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Hi, expect you're feeling the stress now your meetings almost here! just wanted to let you know me &hubby will be thinking of you, you're almost there! amazing when it seems a age...that you'll never get to your date...and here you are, look forward to reading your positive post;),hug x
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  • judojub
    judojub Posts: 276 Forumite
    Hi, expect you're feeling the stress now your meetings almost here! just wanted to let you know me &hubby will be thinking of you, you're almost there! amazing when it seems a age...that you'll never get to your date...and here you are, look forward to reading your positive post;),hug x

    Fav!!!
    I have just logged on and I can't tell you how much seeing this post means to me. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking the time out to think of me!:). I feel quite sick to be honest and a little bit fretful. I so want everything to go ok tomorrow but there is always that doubt in the back of my mind (being a glass half empty kinda girl):(.
    I will, of course post tomorrow as soon as I hear anything and hopefully it will all be good.
    Thank you again. You have put a smile on my face;) xx
  • FavDaughter1
    FavDaughter1 Posts: 300 Forumite
    Hi again, it doesn't seem 5 min since your first post and here we are at your date:eek:!
    i had a wobble just before our meeting,i texed my Dad asking,"are you there if i need you?" being a man of few words he replied..."you bet". you are not alone,big big hug, i've said a prayer for you,will be checking in for your news v soon,hang on in there,almost there,hug x;)
  • FavDaughter1
    FavDaughter1 Posts: 300 Forumite
    p.s have tissues ready for happy tears!
  • debtfree2016
    debtfree2016 Posts: 325 Forumite
    Hope all goes well Judo....
    Never make assumptions always ask questions>>>>>;)
  • judojub
    judojub Posts: 276 Forumite
    Hi. Thank you both so much.
    Just had the phone call and it's a big fat YES!!!! I am soooo happy its unbelievable. Don't know what to say. Bit too excited for words!! :)
  • Charco_2
    Charco_2 Posts: 1,677 Forumite
    Did you address the issue of inheritance?

    It really would be a double shame if, God forbid, anything happened to a loved one and you weren't even able to hold on to the things they've worked their lives to earn.

    Other than that, well done. It's natural to be relieved and pleased now but bear in mind it's only the start of the road.

    Congrats!
    Would you ask the wolves to look after the sheep?
    CCCS funded by banks
  • FavDaughter1
    FavDaughter1 Posts: 300 Forumite
    HEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    what brilliant news for you both:beer:&:j&:T. are you a bit stunned? it might take a little time to sink in,we spend so long waiting,all the anxiety,the dreadful stress, suddenly the meeting is over .

    the most happy,pleased "i told you so",ha!;)

    treat yourselves,a bottle of wine maybe a take away. you're on the road now,light is at then end of that tunnel.

    so pleased,enjoy the elation x
  • Well done Judo, you can breathe again now. On the road to being debt free now. Congratulations and enjoy your evening.
  • judojub
    judojub Posts: 276 Forumite
    Charco wrote: »
    Did you address the issue of inheritance?

    It really would be a double shame if, God forbid, anything happened to a loved one and you weren't even able to hold on to the things they've worked their lives to earn.

    Other than that, well done. It's natural to be relieved and pleased now but bear in mind it's only the start of the road.

    Congrats!


    Hi Charco.
    The inheritance thing I guess is really down to my OH. I have spoken to him about it but ultimately I guess it would be down to him to sort out. Too late now anyway I guess as its just been approved and to be honest if we weren't in the IVA and got an inheritance it would all have gone towards debt anyway!! Bitter sweet pill to swallow I suppose.
    I am thrilled at the minute but I am quite sure the reality will soon set in. This will be no easy road I am quite sure but I am going to give it my best shot!
    Charco. Your advice on here is invaluable along with others and I do thank you:)
  • FoggyBrain_2
    FoggyBrain_2 Posts: 1,121 Forumite
    Told you so :-) As Charco says, it's just the start of the road -- but the journey will be far easier now. You can at least now relax and gather your forces.
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