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Help, struggling with debt

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Hi all,

I need help really, we're in debt badly to the tune of over £8000 :eek:It wasn't so bad a year ago as we were both working, but then I got ppregnant and got sacked for said pregnancy and what with bills and rent we got into debt. I feel so ashamed and disappointed in myself. I owe £5200 on Barclaycard and the minimum pament is £115 and the interest is £95, £1400 on Nationwide Credit card and the minimum is £42, and then £1500 on Barclays Overdraft which I pay into montly, they said they would like to see regular payments going in to avoid having to pay it of in one go. Our rent is £900 for a 2 bed maisonette and council tax is £140 pcm. My fiance is trying to get as many extra shifts as he can and I am looking for work and childcare also.

We are owed £900 from his family but that's never coming back so at the moment we are screwed. I didn't want to be made bankcrupt or anything as I had a perfect credit history before and my partners credit is rubbish.

Any advice at all would be great as I'm so confused as to how I let myself get into this and be so stupid, also sorry for the spelling mistakes I have a baby on my arm asleep.

Thank you

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  • PS added a SOA

    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 1
    Number of cars owned.................... 1

    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 0
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 1500
    Benefits................................ 80
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1580


    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 900
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 140
    Electricity............................. 20
    Gas..................................... 60
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 15
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 50
    TV Licence.............................. 26
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 50
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 100
    Clothing................................ 0
    Petrol/diesel........................... 30
    Road tax................................ 60
    Car Insurance........................... 38
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 4
    Other travel............................ 80
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 50
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 20
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 10
    Haircuts................................ 0
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1653



    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 3000
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 3000


    No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts


    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Barclaycard....................5200......115.......0
    Nationwide.....................1400......42........0
    Overdraft......................1500......20........0
    Total unsecured debts..........8100......177.......-



    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 1,580
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,653
    Available for debt repayments........... -73
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 177
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -250


    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 3,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -8,100
    Net Assets.............................. -5,100


    Created using the SOA calculator at
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using Firefox browser.


    I didn't put the APR as I dont have it to hand at the moment sorry, I'm also tied into my phone contract for another 6 months unless I buy out early :eek::(
  • NeverAgain_2
    NeverAgain_2 Posts: 1,796 Forumite
    Rent seems very high, unless you live in Mayfair.

    And even if you do, you should consider moving to the Old Kent Road.
  • dancingfairy
    dancingfairy Posts: 9,069 Forumite
    Hi - are you not entitled to any more benefits? check out the webstie entitled to .com I think it is and it will give you a arough idea if there is anything else you can claim.
    There are some things on there that could probably be trimmed a bit:
    ie mobiles - can you drop a tariff or go payg? even if in contract you can sometimes reduce by a 5 er at a time.
    electric/gas look a wee bit high - hopefully they will come down now summer is coming but try and be as economical as possible and check you are getting a good deal.
    Cable tv is a luxury you can't really afford right now - you need to get this down to the basic package or get shot altogether and get freeview - sorry.
    60 pounds road tax - that must be a year right? surely it's not that much every month?
    Your rent is high but there's not much you can do about that I guess?

    Somethings seem a bit low on your SOA - food is very low and clothing - well you'll need some at some point.

    Unless you are entitled to more benefits it doesn't look like you are going to find the required extra income/savings of 250 a month to be able to make the books balance.
    It looks very much like you will need to offer your creditors a payment plan based on what you can afford. At the moment it looks like you will need to make them token payments of 1 pound until either you can find a job or your husband gets more hours. It's not ideal though.
    Bankruptcy is not really a suggestion at the moment - sure it's possible but it would be like using a sledgehammer to crack a nut and frankly although your debts are probably huge to you to the banks they are very very small and they are highly unlikely to make you bankrupt over those sums - it'll cost them to do that so don't worry about that one.
    df
    Making my money go further with MSE :j
    How much can I save in 2012 challenge
    75/1200 :eek:
  • Mikazaru
    Mikazaru Posts: 380 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    krissy1984 wrote: »
    PS added a SOA

    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 1
    Number of cars owned.................... 1

    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 0
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 1500
    Benefits................................ 80 Should also be entitled to CTC, maybe £50 a week?
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1580


    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 900
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 140 Can you pay over 12 months insteaad of ten?
    Electricity............................. 20
    Gas..................................... 60
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 15
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 50
    TV Licence.............................. 26
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 50 Get rid or cut down to the very basic.
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 100
    Clothing................................ 0
    Petrol/diesel........................... 30
    Road tax................................ 60 Seems very high for tax?
    Car Insurance........................... 38
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 4
    Other travel............................ 80
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 50 Whats this for?
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 20
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 10
    Haircuts................................ 0
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1653



    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 3000
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 3000


    No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts


    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Barclaycard....................5200......115.......0
    Nationwide.....................1400......42........0
    Overdraft......................1500......20........0
    Total unsecured debts..........8100......177.......-



    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 1,580
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,653
    Available for debt repayments........... -73
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 177
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -250


    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 3,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -8,100
    Net Assets.............................. -5,100


    Created using the SOA calculator at
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using Firefox browser.


    I didn't put the APR as I dont have it to hand at the moment sorry, I'm also tied into my phone contract for another 6 months unless I buy out early :eek::(

    Your car costs seem firly high if your arent using much petrol a month, can it be sold?
  • dancingfairy
    dancingfairy Posts: 9,069 Forumite
    Whilst you are at home with the little one can you cancel the car for a few months? by taking it off the road you will save on the tax and insurance and petrol - any journeys that are essential could perhaps be made by bus or even taxi? If you find you can manage without - great you can sell the car and put the money towards the debts but if not then at least you've tried it and can then go back to using the car when your circumstances have improved?
    df
    Making my money go further with MSE :j
    How much can I save in 2012 challenge
    75/1200 :eek:
  • Pitlanepiglet
    Pitlanepiglet Posts: 2,129 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    I'd echo checking your benefit entitlement, if you contact your local CAB they can do a quick benefits check for you to see if you're getting all that you are entitled to.
    Piglet

    Decluttering - 127/366

    Digital/emails/photo decluttering - 5432/2024
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 35,417 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    please go to www.turn2us.org and check out what benefits you can claim, as you are certainly not getting enough at the moment.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • RAS wrote: »
    please go to www.turn2us.org and check out what benefits you can claim, as you are certainly not getting enough at the moment.

    http://www.turn2us.org.uk/

    Link in post above didnt work.
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