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divorce fees out of the blue

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hi im 7 months into my iva paying 380 a month it has just emerged ex wife will not pay court fees for divorce so if i want divorce i am gonna have to pay 385 to get it done does anyone know if you can ask your iva supervisor for a months break of payments to cover such emergancies as this as at the time of divorce and setting up iva the ex had said she would pay any advice please :(

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  • judojub
    judojub Posts: 276 Forumite
    Hi.
    Sorry to hear things aren't going so well. I am sure somebody will be along to help advise more soon enough but, I think if you phone your IP and explain the circumstances they will allow a payment break. I believe this break would just be tagged on to the end of your IVA term.
  • Charco_2
    Charco_2 Posts: 1,677 Forumite
    If you miss a payment to your IVA it will not be the end of the worl but don't do it willy nilly!

    Speak to your IP and organise it, it should be fairly straightforward to get a month off your payments without having to disrupt anything else. It's better to do these things up front.

    Bear in mind also that your IP will not have to take action until you fall three months behind with your repayments - but you don't want to do that obviously! Keep yuour IP on board with any changes you foresee and he should be more than helpful in trying to make things run smoothly for you... a month payment "holiday" shouldn't ruffle too many feathers!
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  • FoggyBrain_2
    FoggyBrain_2 Posts: 1,121 Forumite
    As luck would have it, you are looking at just a month's break, which, as said above, I am sure your IP will be able to organise.
  • thanks all will phone them and see what they say :)
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