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Resigning whilst on Maternity Leave

Hi there

I am currently on Maternity Leave, I am due back at the end of June.

They are paying me just the SMP.

I want to be fair to them and inform them asap if I decide to resign and become a SAHM, so they have time to recruit.

However I don't want to cut off my nose to spite my face, if when I tell them my SMP stops, is there anything in writing on an official website I could send with a resignation letter, as they are a small company and would just stop my SMP regardless (I am pretty sure I am entitled to 9 months worth?).

Hope this makes sense, baby not allowing me to think clearly.

PS They rang me today asking about days and hours, feeling a bit pressured.
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  • Googlewhacker
    Googlewhacker Posts: 3,887 Forumite
    ClareEmily wrote: »
    Hi there

    I am currently on Maternity Leave, I am due back at the end of June.

    They are paying me just the SMP.

    I want to be fair to them and inform them asap if I decide to resign and become a SAHM, so they have time to recruit.

    However I don't want to cut off my nose to spite my face, if when I tell them my SMP stops, is there anything in writing on an official website I could send with a resignation letter, as they are a small company and would just stop my SMP regardless (I am pretty sure I am entitled to 9 months worth?).

    Hope this makes sense, baby not allowing me to think clearly.

    PS They rang me today asking about days and hours, feeling a bit pressured.

    How can you be feeling pressured by a phone call asking for days and hours (which alot of women would love as it looks like they would be forth coming for part time work/flexible work if you requested it.)

    However to answer the question I think you are right about the 9 months SMP so I suggest you just hand your notice so the last day of notice coincides with the last day of SMP, alot of employers know this is likely to happen (and some are greatful!).
    The Googlewhacker referance is to Dave Gorman and not to my opinion of the search engine!

    If I give you advice it is only a view and always always take professional advice before acting!!!

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  • ClareEmily
    ClareEmily Posts: 931 Forumite
    Thanks for this

    Probably wrong word used by myself should have said I feel "guilty" because they are being so flexible and I don't want to tell them one thing and then do something completely different in 3 months time.
  • Googlewhacker
    Googlewhacker Posts: 3,887 Forumite
    be honest then and say you are unsure and would like some more time to make a decision.

    You don't need to give to much detail, just say you will let them know in the near future.
    The Googlewhacker referance is to Dave Gorman and not to my opinion of the search engine!

    If I give you advice it is only a view and always always take professional advice before acting!!!

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  • Mudd14
    Mudd14 Posts: 856 Forumite
    They shouldnt really be calling and asking when you are coming back and what hours days. They should assume that you are coming back after the 52 weeks.

    SMP is paid for 39 weeks (6 weeks at 90% followed by 33 weeks at the statutory rate or 90% which ever is lower), as long as you fulfil your contractual notice that is all you are required to do.
  • Googlewhacker
    Googlewhacker Posts: 3,887 Forumite
    Mudd14 wrote: »
    They shouldnt really be calling and asking when you are coming back and what hours days. They should assume that you are coming back after the 52 weeks.

    See this is where an employer can't win, if they just ignored the employee then some would complain that the employer wasn't keeping in touch.

    Personally I don't see anything wrong asking someone 8-9 months in if they knew what they were going to do. If the employee said no then so be it, if they said yes then it gives plenty of time to either try and accomidate the employee.

    Obviously you wouldn't phone the person on a weekly basis!
    The Googlewhacker referance is to Dave Gorman and not to my opinion of the search engine!

    If I give you advice it is only a view and always always take professional advice before acting!!!

    4 people on the ignore list....Bliss!
  • ClareEmily
    ClareEmily Posts: 931 Forumite
    See this is where an employer can't win, if they just ignored the employee then some would complain that the employer wasn't keeping in touch.

    Personally I don't see anything wrong asking someone 8-9 months in if they knew what they were going to do. If the employee said no then so be it, if they said yes then it gives plenty of time to either try and accomidate the employee.

    Obviously you wouldn't phone the person on a weekly basis!

    I agree, they are a small company and me being on maternity leave has caused them inconvenience and expense, I don't mind them calling and understand they need to have some idea what I am going to do, just wish I knew, never thought before my baby arrived I would feel like this.
  • Mudd14
    Mudd14 Posts: 856 Forumite
    I agree and disagree. Yes I understand it is good for the employee and employer to keep in touch but it sounded like from the OP it was a nuisance. If the relationship is good I cant see any problems towards the end asking what her intentions are.

    ClaireEmily, a refreshing outlook. Although if they are only paying SMP and are a small employeer they can claim 102% of the cost back. And the cover they have in would be what they would be paying you anyway?! Not a great expense ;)
  • Googlewhacker
    Googlewhacker Posts: 3,887 Forumite
    Mudd14 wrote: »
    I agree and disagree. Yes I understand it is good for the employee and employer to keep in touch but it sounded like from the OP it was a nuisance. If the relationship is good I cant see any problems towards the end asking what her intentions are.

    ClaireEmily, a refreshing outlook. Although if they are only paying SMP and are a small employeer they can claim 102% of the cost back. And the cover they have in would be what they would be paying you anyway?! Not a great expense ;)

    So you then treat someone you don't get on differantly to an employee you do get on with......

    See, the employer could get it wrong at every turn, so I would phone them up prob on the 8th month of maternity.
    The Googlewhacker referance is to Dave Gorman and not to my opinion of the search engine!

    If I give you advice it is only a view and always always take professional advice before acting!!!

    4 people on the ignore list....Bliss!
  • Mudd14
    Mudd14 Posts: 856 Forumite
    So you then treat someone you don't get on differantly to an employee you do get on with......

    See, the employer could get it wrong at every turn, so I would phone them up prob on the 8th month of maternity.

    Yep! Can never win! :p
  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,515 Forumite
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    I think when we haven't heard what someone's plans are we have written to remind them that if they don't tell us different, then the following is happening, ie we expect you back on this date at your previous hours, and a reminder that they need to give us notice of any alteration to this.
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