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I Made Some Mistakes And Want To Move On

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  • sometimesconfused!
    congrats! you're making great progress :j keep going. i went through similar situation. moved cities and everything. it'll all work out and you'll wonder what you were worried about. book a holiday/big day out as something to look forward to. look forward not back.
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  • Culex
    Culex Posts: 776 Forumite
    I then plan on opening a bank account, decided first passport then bank account as it then gives me the ultimate IDENTIFICATION!!!! who knows maybe later this year may try my hand at driving!
    Good heavens!

    I suppose the next thing you'll want will be to vote.
  • curlytop12
    curlytop12 Posts: 1,229 Forumite
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    congratulations,lovely to here how you are getting on :)
  • Further update for those that may like to know........ not only do I know have a passport I am also the holder of ............................. a lloydstsb current account ..... yes a current account am so so so happy!!!!! what the hell was I waiting for am so so so happy. Thank you everyone xxxxxxxxxxxx

    Just found your thread and I'm delighted for you!

    Nice to hear that you have really moved on from your past and can live life now feeling really free and able to be yourself. Enjoy choosing the holiday :D
    I myself am made entirely of flaws, stitched together with good intentions...
  • vka1
    vka1 Posts: 113 Forumite
    Congratulations! Just shows that with some bravery, a wee bit of help here and taking one step at a time how much fear and worry can be put to one side. I hope you have a fabulous holiday and enjoy each small step as it comes,

    V
  • sometimesconfused, congratulations on screwing up your courage and starting to sort out your life. You should be very proud of yourself.

    Have a fantastic holiday!
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