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renting room to ex?

Right then, this may seem a bit unusual but, myself and my ex are still living in the same house while we sort out getting it sold, the mortgage etc is in my name, we have talked about the possibility of either of us moving out while we sell, which could take a while, I am on a DMP so if I suddenly have a change of address the creditors may get a bit tetchy, and the mortgage company would have to agree first, if my ex moved out she'd struggle to find anything sensible.
She claims a benefit which would mean her rent would be paid, whereas, I am self employed.
"IF" she were to rent a room from me while we sort things out, what would we have to do to show the DHSS we were not living together as a couple?
We are not trying to defraud anyone of anything, if she moved elsewhere she would have to pay rent, and if she moved out, I would take on a lodger to help pay bills till the house was sold

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  • MrsManda
    MrsManda Posts: 4,457 Forumite
    DWP guidance says:

    Renting a former joint home from your ex-partner

    You cannot get HB if you pay rent to your ex-partner if you have separated and you have remained in the former joint home. This applies whether you were a married or unmarried couple.
    http://www.dwp.gov.uk/publications/specialist-guides/technical-guidance/rr2-a-guide-to-housing-benefit/housing-benefit/

    so I don't think she'll be able to claim housing benefit in order to pay rent to you.
  • karenx
    karenx Posts: 4,988 Forumite
    What did she do to help pay her way beforehand? Can she not continue to do so
    You cannot have a mortgage then claim help with rent on the exact same house
  • allen35
    allen35 Posts: 1,516 Forumite
    I would suggest you encourage your ex partner to be looking for alternative accomodation anyway, what are the plans when the property is sold, you state 'when we sell' i take it this means your ex partner has a financial interest in the property!!

    If you don't intend getting back together why wait! It's going to happen eventually.

    I have come across this situation before and the ex partner received a large overpayment from DWP, HMRC and Local Authority due to being classed as fraud.
    Forums can be/are a good guide to entitlement and it is good practice to back it up with clarification from the relevant department/specialist with written confirmation to safeguard yourself.
  • Jowo_2
    Jowo_2 Posts: 8,308 Forumite
    The Turn2us and LHA Direct website will indicate the benefit entitlements when you separate.

    I really don't think the creditors attitude to a change of address is a reason for you to worry about either party moving to a new porperty. They have no influence in these matters.
  • HappyMJ
    HappyMJ Posts: 21,115 Forumite
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    Right then, this may seem a bit unusual but, myself and my ex are still living in the same house while we sort out getting it sold, the mortgage etc is in my name, we have talked about the possibility of either of us moving out while we sell, which could take a while, I am on a DMP so if I suddenly have a change of address the creditors may get a bit tetchy, and the mortgage company would have to agree first, if my ex moved out she'd struggle to find anything sensible.
    She claims a benefit which would mean her rent would be paid, whereas, I am self employed.
    "IF" she were to rent a room from me while we sort things out, what would we have to do to show the DHSS we were not living together as a couple?
    We are not trying to defraud anyone of anything, if she moved elsewhere she would have to pay rent, and if she moved out, I would take on a lodger to help pay bills till the house was sold
    As has been said she can't rent from you for the house she lived in or owned previously. If she owns a share of the house how much is her share worth after fees (deemed at 10% of valuation) and mortgage have been paid. If it's too much it may affect a HB/LHA claim elsewhere. It's not DHSS you claim from that was years ago. Housing Benefits also known as Local Housing Allowance can be claimed from the local council.

    You can't show them you are not living as a couple it's the history your relationship for which you can't demonstrate that you were a couple.
    :footie:
    :p Regular savers earn 6% interest (HSBC, First Direct, M&S) :p Loans cost 2.9% per year (Nationwide) = FREE money. :p
  • ok folks, thanks for the help, didn't want to start that particular ball rolling if it wasn't feasable, yes she has a small claim in the property, which to be honest, if it takes a while to sell, I could probably pay her without selling, these places are often on the market for over a year, and if I could rent out a room I would raise that money a lot quicker, life gets complicated don't it!! I'll just have to work like a nutter for a while and see if I can scrape the money together while it's up for sale!
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