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Two years after separation - wife wants more
martin0001
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Hi
My wife and I separated two years ago. We sold house and split proceeds 50/50. I gave her £4000 in lieu of family car and she bought another. She had contents of entire house and I kept touring caravan.
Nothing was done legally.
Now two and half years later she has sent solicitor letter threatening with court if I don't pay her half of the caravan and car. Her solicitors ask for voluntary disclosure of assets including 6 months bank statement but all the transactions I have stated are on statements two years ago.
Any advice?
I can't really afford solicitor and don't fancy going to court.
thanks
M:mad:
My wife and I separated two years ago. We sold house and split proceeds 50/50. I gave her £4000 in lieu of family car and she bought another. She had contents of entire house and I kept touring caravan.
Nothing was done legally.
Now two and half years later she has sent solicitor letter threatening with court if I don't pay her half of the caravan and car. Her solicitors ask for voluntary disclosure of assets including 6 months bank statement but all the transactions I have stated are on statements two years ago.
Any advice?
I can't really afford solicitor and don't fancy going to court.
thanks
M:mad:
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Why have you not started divorce proceedings?
YOu really do need to get this sorted out properly with a financial settlement that does not leave you open to bullying.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
Stupid really. Neither of us were in a hurry to divorce. I moved in with my parents and she moved to a new house - just overlooked. Then she started having affair with my brother and the emotions which have caused trauma within my family made me bury my head a bit!
I issued divorce proceedings four weeks ago for two year separation and she refused to consent until finances sorted in her favour. thanks for your reply.0 -
Surely you can divorce her for adultery without her consent.
Her assets should also be considered in dividing up the marital assets (even if separated for 2 years), I think you need a solicitor though
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Her assets should also be considered in dividing up the marital assets (even if separated for 2 years), I think you need a solicitor though
yep she can't have it all ways - if she gets half of your assets, you also get half of hers...some solicitors will give a free initial session...get one booked0
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