We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

OMG Pregnant and Bankrupt!

I was declared bankrupt at the end of November least year

I have now since found out I am pregnant (wasn't planned) and i'm worried sick about our financial situation as I have no surplus left to buy anything for the baby

What is my situation with this and BR, do I need to advise the OR about this, is there any benefits i'd be entitled to, I work full time and my partner is still out of work and not entitled to benefits as I am on over £20k per annum


«13

Comments

  • Doooford
    Doooford Posts: 471 Forumite
    I was declared bankrupt at the end of November least year

    I have now since found out I am pregnant (wasn't planned) and i'm worried sick about our financial situation as I have no surplus left to buy anything for the baby

    What is my situation with this and BR, do I need to advise the OR about this, is there any benefits i'd be entitled to, I work full time and my partner is still out of work and not entitled to benefits as I am on over £20k per annum



    Where are you based?
    We are just moving house and have a fair amount of stuff to get rid of. My partner only buys top quality stuff (to my dismay).
    I know this isn't the answer to your question, but as I was just about to go on Freecycle and I saw this post, I thought I'd offer. Although maybe wont be able to anyway!
  • GEEGEE8
    GEEGEE8 Posts: 2,440 Forumite
    Wow - Congratulations xx

    Don't worry, you won't go without.. speak to the OR and ask them some questions about it to put your mind at rest.

    Do you have an IPA in place?

    When is the baby due?

    Do you get maternity pay?

    Please don't worry, this is great news and I'm sure you can get through this :D

    Do you have family that can help? I'm sure a lot of parents get gifted loads of toys and clothes, and despite popular belief, you don't need all fancy things at a young age to be happy ! xx
    9/70lbs to lose :)
  • Doooford wrote: »
    Where are you based?
    We are just moving house and have a fair amount of stuff to get rid of. My partner only buys top quality stuff (to my dismay).
    I know this isn't the answer to your question, but as I was just about to go on Freecycle and I saw this post, I thought I'd offer. Although maybe wont be able to anyway!

    Dooford, Hi

    That's a vrey nice offer - I am based in Leeds though so quite far away from you.....

    :-)
  • GEEGEE8 wrote: »
    Wow - Congratulations xx

    Don't worry, you won't go without.. speak to the OR and ask them some questions about it to put your mind at rest.

    Do you have an IPA in place?

    When is the baby due?

    Do you get maternity pay?

    Please don't worry, this is great news and I'm sure you can get through this :D

    Do you have family that can help? I'm sure a lot of parents get gifted loads of toys and clothes, and despite popular belief, you don't need all fancy things at a young age to be happy ! xx


    Hi, thanks for your kind words

    My company is actually really good - I get 6 months full maternity pay

    I've actually only just found out i'm pregnant and i'm due late September

    I know I don't need to spend loads as its about giving love and keeping a roof over their head but I would have liked to have some money to buy bits and pieces throughout my pregnancy - I don't think £250 a month will cut it for food when I have a baby and endless amounts of nappies and milk to buy




  • Congratulations on the baby.

    Don't panic, you've already done the best thing for the baby by declaring yourself bankrupt. Also, check out what benefits the child will be entitled to [family tax credits etc.]

    Hopefully your OH will find work before September.
  • GEEGEE8
    GEEGEE8 Posts: 2,440 Forumite
    I think you get grants whilst you are pregnant to help with buying things, cot, pram etc..

    I'm near Leeds too, I go to Leeds Uni.. :)
    9/70lbs to lose :)
  • GEEGEE8 wrote: »
    I think you get grants whilst you are pregnant to help with buying things, cot, pram etc..

    I'm near Leeds too, I go to Leeds Uni.. :)

    GeeGee8, do you have any idea what kinds of grants and where I can obtain these?
  • Hi, thanks for your kind words

    My company is actually really good - I get 6 months full maternity pay

    I've actually only just found out i'm pregnant and i'm due late September

    I know I don't need to spend loads as its about giving love and keeping a roof over their head but I would have liked to have some money to buy bits and pieces throughout my pregnancy - I don't think £250 a month will cut it for food when I have a baby and endless amounts of nappies and milk to buy





    Hi there, congrats on your impending arrival!!! I am due my second baby in June. You can pick up loads of great quality second hand stuff from NCT nearly new sales!! Also, have you thought about breastfeeding...its free!!! I'm a qualified helper so if you want any more info feel free to ask me and I'll try and help x
  • Put an ad onto freecycle, people are always getting rid of baby stuff on there. It might help a little towards the bigger items you need.
    Payment a day challenge: £236.69
    Jan Shopping Challenge: £202.09/£250
    Frugal Living Challenge: £534.64/15000
  • GEEGEE8
    GEEGEE8 Posts: 2,440 Forumite
    I've had a look and it seems you may have to be claiming some sort of benefit to be entitled.

    This gives a good overview I think.

    http://www.forparentsbyparents.com/index.html?pn=838
    9/70lbs to lose :)
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.1K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.6K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.2K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.1K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.7K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.5K Life & Family
  • 258.9K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.