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whne help was needed for your other half did you help...

and when you need the help back does this happen?
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  • USM
    USM Posts: 317 Forumite
    I don't understand the question..
  • Deals_2
    Deals_2 Posts: 2,410 Forumite
    i find it very one sided.
    USM wrote: »
    I don't understand the question..
  • if i need help he is 100% behind me.. same goes for me with him.

    I wouldnt be with him if we couldnt/wouldnt/begrudged helping one another
  • USM
    USM Posts: 317 Forumite
    It may make your posts easier to read if you put them all in the appropriate box rather than half in the title and half in the main box?
  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    Do you mean if your partner needs help, do you help them and do they help you when you need help?

    Yes, we both treat each other the same.
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  • jcr16
    jcr16 Posts: 4,185 Forumite
    i without question would help my hubby, he wouldn't even need to ask. and the same for me. he is always willing to help. even at times when i've not realised i've needed the help but he has seeni do.

    were a team , so will always be there for one another no questions asked.
  • jenhug
    jenhug Posts: 2,277 Forumite
    we are partners in every way. of course we help each other.
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    Of course I do! That's what a partnership's all about. I guess you're not feeling that yourself, Deals. Why not post us some more info and we'll see if we can give you some help and support?
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  • rozmister
    rozmister Posts: 675 Forumite
    I will always help my boyfriend (and do) and he will always help me too, to the best of his ability. He isn't very good at dealing with emotions though so he can't always help with that side of things but he would always try to :)
  • tattycath
    tattycath Posts: 7,175 Forumite
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    Yes when my husband needs help i help him and vice versa-not begrudgingly so either-we're a team, we work together
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