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Need to leave him -

I need to leave my partner, or him move out. We live in a 3 bed house, 2 daughters. I don't work, he pays for everything. Won't bore you with details but we can't carry on.

How much would I be penalised if I stay in our house? The rent exceeds the lha rate, he will pay the excess until I get myself, childcare and job sorted. How much would they deduct for the 3rd bedroom?

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  • RAS
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    When is the rental period up?
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  • Indie_Kid
    Indie_Kid Posts: 23,099 Forumite
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    What's the LHA in your area for 2 bedrooms? https://lha-direct.voa.gov.uk/Secure/Default.aspx
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  • Jowo_2
    Jowo_2 Posts: 8,308 Forumite
    Who signed the rental agreement - is it in joint names or his name and are you planning to change it into your name?
  • pandaspot
    pandaspot Posts: 533 Forumite
    Have you thought about applying for a dhp (discretionary housing payment) this is a payment made by the local authority to help pay any shortfall in your rent, we normally pay about £5-£10 per were extra to people in your situation. But this depends wholly on your la, as it is discretionary to the assessor who deals with your claim and discretionary on the la area.

    Just something to think about claiming :)
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