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Called liar for being off sick

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  • Googlewhacker
    Googlewhacker Posts: 3,887 Forumite
    Strider590 wrote: »
    Boss sounds like a tw4t....

    How'd he get to be boss? Im betting he's either a recent uni student OR he's 7ft tall......

    Nicely generic insulting of University Students, I'm guessing you didn't goto Uni then and are jealous of people who get into higher positions than yourself after they decided on further education.

    Boss still sounds like a bit of an idiot though.
    The Googlewhacker referance is to Dave Gorman and not to my opinion of the search engine!

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  • olias
    olias Posts: 3,588 Forumite
    Strider590 wrote: »
    Boss sounds like a tw4t....

    How'd he get to be boss?

    In my experience, that is a pre requisite of being a boss!:D

    Olias
  • Strider590
    Strider590 Posts: 11,874 Forumite
    Nicely generic insulting of University Students, I'm guessing you didn't goto Uni then and are jealous of people who get into higher positions than yourself after they decided on further education.

    Boss still sounds like a bit of an idiot though.


    Ummmmm..... No, in my experience when you put an inexperienced child into a management position they will act like utter "know it all" tw4ts.
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  • Googlewhacker
    Googlewhacker Posts: 3,887 Forumite
    Strider590 wrote: »
    Ummmmm..... No, in my experience when you put an inexperienced child into a management position they will act like utter "know it all" tw4ts.

    Then your experience is unlucky but you do seem very patronising towards these members of society, I bet you didn't help their cause did you.
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  • BARGAINHUNTER!
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  • WhiteHorse
    WhiteHorse Posts: 2,492 Forumite
    edited 5 January 2011 at 7:49PM
    If your husband is known to suffer from UC and the manager called him a liar for going off with classic flare symptoms, then the manager is a Grade A fool.
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  • GavB79
    GavB79 Posts: 751 Forumite
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    It is a disability.

    It is not recognised as a disability though, like being blind or wheelchair-bound. Cancer is a disease, that's not called a disability either.
  • Emmylou_2
    Emmylou_2 Posts: 1,049 Forumite
    GavB79 wrote: »
    It is not recognised as a disability though, like being blind or wheelchair-bound. Cancer is a disease, that's not called a disability either.

    Gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah! This has made me so ANGRY :mad::mad::mad::mad:. I have ME. This is a disability. And occasionally, I use a wheelchair. Please note that I am not BOUND to the wheelchair in a physical sense - no one goes near me with rubber bungee cords for example - and when I am ill enough to need one, it doesn't bind my activities. As long as there's ramps and wide enough access (and somewhere to charge the battery for the power chair if necessary) then using the wheelchair actually does the opposite of bind me - it frees me to be able to get on with my life as normal.

    UC *is* a disability (as is cancer - yes it's a disease too) as defined under the Equality Act 2010 (which has superseded the Disability Discrimination Act 1995) - see direct.gov.uk (http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/DisabledPeople/RightsAndObligations/DisabilityRights/DG_4001068)

    The definition of ‘disability’ under the Equality Act 2010

    In the Act, a person has a disability if:
    • they have a physical or mental impairment
    • the impairment has a substantial and long-term adverse effect on their ability to perform normal day-to-day activities
    For the purposes of the Act, these words have the following meanings:
    • 'substantial' means more than minor or trivial
    • 'long-term' means that the effect of the impairment has lasted or is likely to last for at least twelve months (there are special rules covering recurring or fluctuating conditions)
    • 'normal day-to-day activities' include everyday things like eating, washing, walking and going shopping
    People who have had a disability in the past that meets this definition are also protected by the Act.

    ***

    OP - I think your husband is doing really well only having two days off in a year when he's got UC, and if his boss doesn't realise that, then it's his loss. If Boss goes "formal", then obviously you've got the protection of the Equality Act to back you up - but it won't hurt (in either an employment or medical sense) for your OH to see the medics as soon as he can.
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  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    GavB79 wrote: »
    It is not recognised as a disability though, like being blind or wheelchair-bound. Cancer is a disease, that's not called a disability either.

    Cancer is specifically included under the disability discrimination act. I believe that ulcerative colitis would also qualify as a disability under that act depending on its severity.
  • GavB79
    GavB79 Posts: 751 Forumite
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    Well I have had UC for 12 years and have never had it recognised as a disability. Just stated my personal experience.
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