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If offered, should I move for a job?

Hello,

I am just looking for people's thoughts on my potential dilemma, although ultimately I need to decide if it comes to it. It just would be great to get people's thoughts especially if they have been in a similar situation.

I have a second interview for a role this week the job is something that I really want to do and what I have experience of and the package that they are offering is good.

The problem is that the location if far from ideal, I currently live in the South West of England and the job would be in Kent. I really like where I live and would prefer not to move. The problem is that I am currently not working (my last role was a short term contract and finished in December) but do not seem to be having any joy in finding suitable roles to apply for where I live (although admittedly December was never going to be a great time to look) but had been looking previously.
There would be no major difficulties with moving as I don't have any major ties, mortgages etc.

I am just wondering whether if I am offered the role should I take it? given that it isn't easy to find a job and it would definitely better then not working.

I was thinking if I was offered it just living away during the week and coming back at the weekend but the cost of renting 2 places could be quite prohibitive and so much of my weekend would be spent travelling as it would be at least a 3.5 hour drive each way so maybe isn't such a great option.
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  • misskool
    misskool Posts: 12,832 Forumite
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    Any family around? What else is keeping you in the area?

    If I was single, no mortgage, I would move.
  • CFC
    CFC Posts: 3,119 Forumite
    I agree with misskool. You can always stick it out for a year then look around for another job in SW.
  • If it's the job you want and the money's right - go for it. (Especially if you're living on benefits now - you have a duty to get off them)
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    I can't see any reason not to take the job, if you don't like it you can always move back in a year or two if you can get a job in your preferred area.
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,717 Forumite
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    write out pros/cons of staying put and pros/cons of moving to Kent.

    To help -
    pros of moving to Kent
    1 (presumably) easy access to Channel Tunnel and hence trips to the Continent
    2 paid employment with good package

    get the idea?

    with no ties (mortgage/children) to keep you in the South West it's not really a contest IMO
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • My folks are about 200 miles away in North of England and I am single. Although I am in my thirties and have moved around quite a bit over the years for uni, then work placements so would prefer to be more settled. The main reasons I would want to stay in the current area are friends, social life and areas to do the sports I enjoy. There are also other areas in the country I would much prefer to move to then where I would need to be located for this role, so I am not really limiting myself.
  • Bennifred
    Bennifred Posts: 3,986 Forumite
    Go for it, Monkeymania! You never know, you might like Kent just as much/more than the SW. :j Having a job/money will give you more options - it's also easier to get another job if you're already in one. The SW isn't going anywhere, and you aren't signing up for life, presumably!
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  • redcard
    redcard Posts: 1,563 Forumite
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    Not sure why you would need to rent 2 places - that sounds quite ridiculous. You would be cheaper booking into a hotel every weekend.

    It's not really clear that you want a job.
    Hope over Fear. #VoteYes
  • I am not claiming any benefits, I was doing some temping work in December and am also working tomorrow so I think it is fair to say I want to be working!
    It is just I would prefer the job to be commutable from where I am currently based.
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    The main reasons I would want to stay in the current area are friends, social life and areas to do the sports I enjoy.

    If you're on JSA, you can't have much money for socialising and sports, can you?
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