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TPA – 3rd Year MFW -More Challenges, Failures and Possibly some Successes!

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  • Hugs, TPA. I'm sure it will all come out in the wash. xxx
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • TallGirl
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    Sorry to hear TPA try not to worry and make that appointment on Monday. Got my 3rd reminder for my smear really must get it booked. Cannot take the chance really can we.

    Well done on all the MS just asked for 3 jobs on E*A not done any on there for ages lets see if they still want me.
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  • I order you not to stress all weekend.

    Nothing you can do till Monday, and you will deal with whatever then. In all reality, something serious would not just make you feel ill and tired in one week. Are you sickening for something else? Plenty about. Maybe just a swollen lymph node because you are fighting off something else.

    Don't jump straight to thebad conclusions.

    Hugs to you. Post loads if you need to and we will be here for you xx
  • Thanks everyone. As cha says I am hoping the lump is a reaction to the tiredness not the other way around. I'm snuggled up in bed with cat and my iPod x
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  • gallygirl
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    I thought of lymph nodes immediately too TPA. You're probably just run down - but get it checked anyway!

    gg xx
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  • Been to work today, was busy busy so not too much time to stress, until I got home, showered and felt the lump again. I'm still doing the 'it's nothing to worry about' v 'OMG what is it'.

    Still not told anyone else, hopefully after i've been to the doctors tomorrow I can come on and say..yep TPA is a hypochondriac :o.

    One the one hand I feel like a wally for worrying on the other - I don't think I've been so scared since Dad had his car accident.

    Once again thanks for all your support.

    TPAx
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  • It's nearly Monday, and i am sure you will soon have your mind put at rest. Obviously we can't see it to know if it is something to worry about or not. I don't think anyone who posts here would ever think you were a hypochondriac for worrying about it. I know i would be the same.

    I had an abnormal smear a few years back, and that freaked me so much i went on to have both my boys within 2.5 years after that in case it became more abnormal and i couldn't have them. I was a mess having to go for smears every 6 months, and so glad when it finally went normal again.

    LEt us know how you get on. xx
  • It's nearly Monday, and i am sure you will soon have your mind put at rest. Obviously we can't see it to know if it is something to worry about or not. I don't think anyone who posts here would ever think you were a hypochondriac for worrying about it. I know i would be the same.

    I had an abnormal smear a few years back, and that freaked me so much i went on to have both my boys within 2.5 years after that in case it became more abnormal and i couldn't have them. I was a mess having to go for smears every 6 months, and so glad when it finally went normal again.

    LEt us know how you get on. xx


    Thank you cha, I cannot tell you what it means to have everyones support on here, I know it is likely to be nothing (please...I hope) which is probably why I have chosen not to burden those to whom I am closest to on the 'outside world'. But sharing it on here somehow makes it easier.:o

    TPAx
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    May 2013:j
  • Radish72
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    Thinking of you TPA

    I hope you get a Dr's appointment as soon as, just wondering if you could nip to Accident and Emergency, for some re-assurance x
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  • Cannot sleep! I'm tired (not as bad as I've been in the week mind you) but could really do with getting a few more hours. Oh well sky and Judge Judy it is! X

    Just remembered I forgot to share something with you all earlier in the week-in work we often have to sign things with just our initials- I signed TPA! Too much MSE me thinks!
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