PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

will I be stuck in flat forever?

just over 3 years ago I entered into a part buy/part rent HA scheme for a 2 bedroom flat near my work. In my block there are 8 others, 2 of which are vunerable adults with carers that come in during parts of the day. One of them lives below me.

The sound proofing between the flats up and down is not very good and although we have persued this as a block our only option would be to get the tests re-done at over £1000 per flat.

My neighbour below often gets distressed and claps, shouts and bangs the walls. It usually occurs at night. I understand they are frightened but this often wakes me up.

I have had a meeting with their parent and tried my hardest to make friends as well as complaining to the HA. I know their parents are trying their best with limited budget to help with carers etc but nothing has changed.

I have met someone since I invested and we now want to buy a house together but my problem is selling. I do not feel I will be able to sell a flat when there is persistant noise (the HA said I should try but I refuse to waste money, I have to pay their solicitors fees as well as mine! and would you buy a flat with a noisy neighbour!)

I feel I will be trapped here forever unless the neighbour moves at some point. They part own their flat so its not a case of just moving them.

The noise gets worse and I seem to be having no luck getting the noise to reduce.

Does anyone have any good ideas?:(

Comments

  • Try selling it back to the HA. Is there an option to do this?
  • tomitma
    tomitma Posts: 390 Forumite
    You have made a rod for your own back here, you could say nothing about the noise to the potential buyers, but as you have made a bit of a fuss about it, you will have no option but to declare the noise to the potential buyers, as if they move in and enquire about it later, they will be made well aware that you knew about how noisy it is before selling. The new law states that you have to declare noisy or troublesome nieghbours.
  • Try selling it back to the HA. Is there an option to do this?

    there is no option to do this, nor would they let me rent it out (not that any tennants would put up with the noise)
  • tomitma wrote: »
    You have made a rod for your own back here, you could say nothing about the noise to the potential buyers, but as you have made a bit of a fuss about it, you will have no option but to declare the noise to the potential buyers, as if they move in and enquire about it later, they will be made well aware that you knew about how noisy it is before selling. The new law states that you have to declare noisy or troublesome nieghbours.
    The trouble is the noise started on day 1 that they moved in and has been on and off since over the 3 years, I did not anticipate wanting to move when I first complained 3 years ago:(
  • 22225
    22225 Posts: 214 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    just wanted to say that i'm sorry for your predicament and I hope that something works out for you xx
  • Is the noise heard all over your flat or in just one room. If only in one room it may be worth you sound proofing from above to eliminate this.

    The only other course of action is to have talks with you local anti social behaviour unit and see if they have any experience with this problem ie learning disabilities/mental health issues and how best to try to overcome it.

    I do feel for you as sleep deprivation is a killer. Have you tried ear plugs to try to help you whilst decisions are made?
  • unfortunately you can hear it all over the flat, even worse my hearing is not perfect!

    I do feel sorry for them, its not their fault but its not mine either.

    Its a very difficult and frustrating situation to be in
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.2K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.2K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.7K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.2K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 599.3K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.1K Life & Family
  • 257.7K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.