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Transporting a dead person.

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  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,310 Forumite
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    bryanb wrote: »
    See the OP - No other relatives.
    yes I saw that. my point was that it helps, when arranging a funeral, to know what the person wants.

    I was surprised to find my parents wanted to be cremated, but knowing that I wouldn't dream of doing anything else. the OP knows the person concerned wants to be buried with their spouse: that's what should happen and now is a good time to work out how to make it happen.

    btw it makes sense to me that undertakers transport coffins in 'unmarked' estate cars: aren't there laws about how fast you can drive a hearse? or do they just do that as a mark of respect?
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  • Errata
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    Not sure about speed limits for a hearse. I certainly know they do 50 down the by-pass, as I had to keep up.
    Undertakers use estate cars to transport bodies as they generally collect them from hospitals and residential homes and the constant appearance of hearses at these places would be upsetting to patients, visitors and residents.
    My office at the hospital was next to the mortuary; it was surprisingly busy.
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  • paulofessex
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    Is it a myth then that a fee has to be paid to each LA of each County the bodies travels through
  • Savvy_Sue
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    Errata wrote: »
    Not sure about speed limits for a hearse. I certainly know they do 50 down the by-pass, as I had to keep up.
    never had to drive behind one: I know we crawled out to the crem behind Dad but it was first day of heavy snow last year and a bit slippy! the minister said he would usually drive on ahead to be there before the body but we took him with us to reduce the number of cars on the road, very glad I was NOT driving that day!

    to the OP, allow plenty of time to get the body where you want it: if your relative should die at this time of year do not take the first free spot in the vicar's diary!

    how do they dig graves in this weather?
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  • Farway
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    Is it a myth then that a fee has to be paid to each LA of each County the bodies travels through

    I reckon so, how would any county know these days with motorways etc?
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  • Farway
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    Savvy_Sue wrote: »
    how do they dig graves in this weather?

    With difficulty :D

    I know in past centuries some bodies remained unburied for a few months due to frozen ground, no doubt stored in church crypt or similar very cold place
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  • paddedjohn
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    Check out your local papers for a 'Man and a Van'. I would charge about £2/mile so about £400 in total. I may sound a bit blunt with my answer but i'm just being practical
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  • 1jim
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    I would hire a van, transit type or smaller if possible and do the job yourself if you would be ok with it, ie not too upset/creaped out, but yes i would see if insurance company would pay for prep at local undertakers and funeral at other undertakers
  • I believe you do have to notify each county you pass through with the coffin with the route planned. We looked into sending my mum home to be buried, but the cost was staggering as it was 300+miles. I think you need dignity for the coffin and a local van man may be cheap, but remeber you are handling a bio-hazard.
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  • clairec79
    clairec79 Posts: 2,512 Forumite
    As far as I was aware (and I stand to be corrected) anyone can transport a dead body.
    Undertakers and funeral directors are not necessary so I would imagine a cardboard coffin and an estate car would do.
    I think it's just the necessary paperwork that has to be in order.

    True, the funeral director asked my brother if they wished them to transport their son to the cemetary or if they wanted to take him in their own car (they wanted to go with him but for the funeral director to drive - so they went in the limo usually used for mourners)
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