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do you buy your oh/hubby a christmas card

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  • marleyboy
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    Always, some cards are EXTRA special ;) And are kept forevermore.
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  • As for me I always buy cards, but I think that it’s more exciting and funny to create one by myself)))) so next time I will make one)))))
  • gipsygirl
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    This may sound a bit mean to some people but hubby & I send the same cards to each other every year!

    The cards are carefully wrapped up in tissue paper & put away with the decorations & then come out when we trim up the Sunday before Christmas.

    This all started many years ago when we were very hard up newlyweds ( an old lady told me she & her husband had done this for many years, & I really liked the idea & suggested it to hubby who was up for it.)

    31 years on we are debt & mortgage free, &the cost of a card would be incidental, but the old cards come out every year & I find it quite sentimental & would hate to replace them. The words in them still mean the same to us now as when we were first married, & they always give me a lump in my throat – soppy but true!

    I also have a few Christmas tree decorations from when I was a child that I inherited from my Mum - I love them & wouldn’t part with them for the world.

    We have always bought birthday cards for each other every year though, so not total cheapskates!
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  • MrsE_2
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    Meadows wrote: »
    Have done for over thirty years but past few years we stopped it, you buy a card as nice as some can be and a good card can cost up to £5. Once read it sits on a shelf and taken down in the New Year. In fact we have stopped buying cards you can always add little notes to pack lunches through out the year rather than a greetings card twice a year.

    We do the card thing, but I think your note in a packed lunch idea is much better:D
  • marleyboy
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    MrsE wrote: »
    We do the card thing, but I think your note in a packed lunch idea is much better:D
    We do this to each others packed lunches, but very sporadic through the Year, so as to keep them as little surprises rather than expectants..
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  • jem1276
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    Similar to gipsygirl, we bought a big card each for the first Christmas after we were married and each year we write a new message for each other.

    Love the romance of it and look forward to reading the previous years messages when they come out of the loft :)
  • jcr16
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    every year my hubby always buys an amazing card. last years made me cry the poem was so perfect. he spends agaes finding the right card.

    i always try to find a fitting poem, something that sums excatly how i feel about my hubby , then i always add an romantic comment from the heart.
  • tara747
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    gipsygirl wrote: »
    This may sound a bit mean to some people but hubby & I send the same cards to each other every year!

    The cards are carefully wrapped up in tissue paper & put away with the decorations & then come out when we trim up the Sunday before Christmas.

    This all started many years ago when we were very hard up newlyweds ( an old lady told me she & her husband had done this for many years, & I really liked the idea & suggested it to hubby who was up for it.)

    31 years on we are debt & mortgage free, &the cost of a card would be incidental, but the old cards come out every year & I find it quite sentimental & would hate to replace them. The words in them still mean the same to us now as when we were first married, & they always give me a lump in my throat – soppy but true!

    I also have a few Christmas tree decorations from when I was a child that I inherited from my Mum - I love them & wouldn’t part with them for the world.

    We have always bought birthday cards for each other every year though, so not total cheapskates!

    I have a tear in my eye! That is so sweet, bless you both. :)
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  • Turtle
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    We don't buy cards any more, we spend a fiver between us on lottery tickets instead :rotfl::rotfl:
  • LalaGomay
    LalaGomay Posts: 517 Forumite
    edited 2 November 2010 at 12:46PM
    I do. We make each other cards every birthday/Christmas/Valentine's.

    I always thought my mum just pretended to prefer homemade cards, but now I realise they really are more special! It's so cute when your boyfriend's drawn you a little picture and used all his little coloured pens. Bless!

    jem1276 wrote: »
    Similar to gipsygirl, we bought a big card each for the first Christmas after we were married and each year we write a new message for each other.

    Love the romance of it and look forward to reading the previous years messages when they come out of the loft :)

    That's a great idea!
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