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Weekly Flylady Thread 25th October 2010

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  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,568 Forumite
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    Shysarah wrote: »



    Oh quick question... I have a fold up shopping trolley coming, its red and white flowers and quite funky. Now I am 32 and am seriously getting the mick taken about it :(..
    Does anyone here think its daft or a good idea or have one?

    Happy Flying all

    Sarah x

    if you regularly walk to the shops and have to carry stuff back then no - why make work for yourself?
    vanilla wrote: »
    Thanks everyone for the vibes as i did stay calm but can't say i'll be the same at home time.:(

    Vanilla (((hugs))) Put the ball in her court and ask her exactly what steps she is going to take to prevent further bullying/assault. Tell her that if there is a re-occurence you will be reporting it to the police.
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • sexymouse
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    Well in the HHC I managed to declutter a few bits and pieces. I had the same problem pigpen had with things being related to other rooms in the house, filing etc, so although the room doesn't look like I've done a lot to it, I have. This involved some decluttering of the stairs (where I've been keeping timesheets etc until I've got the payslip through), putting a load of washing away (Moon had dumped it on the living room floor instead of putting it away), filing some bank statements, throwing lots of bits in the recycling or the burning pile, changing my place of work on the GTC form as they've got my old school on there still, and various other bits.

    I'm off to investigate what I've got in the house for lunch.

    See you later for another HHC.

    PS Sorry to hear that the head at your DD's school is incompetent vanilla - I would be straight back onto the police, as they did say that if nothing were done, to contact them again.
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • sammiell
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    Monday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs
    Level One
    Vacuum decluttered floors!
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Check house for draughts and make a plan to plug them before it gets REALLY wintery cold!
    Hang pictures/mirrors etc that you have had for AAAAGES and not got round to doing yet!
    Empty and clear out a cupboard or drawer..


    Extras
    1. HHI or HHC doing some task you ALWAYS put off!
    2. binbag dance
    3. Wipe the skirtings and window frames
    Im in thanks for the lists.A beautiful and sunny day here today though a bit cold, so far ive put wm on, hung out one load, collected lego and got milk & bits from lidl while i was out, tidied Ds room, hung up towels from Dd how had gone to the art gallery with friends for art homework all glammed up even naired her legs so ill be cleaning the bath in a bit:eek:

    ive decluttered a bag of cheese puffs while catching up with thread going to get on now and
    PIGPEN have you posted motability forms yet?
    laters samx
  • LameWolf
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    Hi all.

    I'm in again; having a lunch break, so thought I'd come in and wave.:D
    Many thanks FCC.
    LadyL :A:A:A:A:A:A its so nice to see you posting - I feel your posts have a calmimg influence - I suppose its because we all know how brave you are coping with your illness it makes me realise how grateful we should be for every day. Love you loads and hope things are a bit more stable for you just now. xxxxx
    ^ ^ ^ Wot she said.:o

    Vanilla major posi-vibes for you and DD.

    Msgnomey gentle (((HUGS)))

    I must, must, must try and pace myself this week. Had a really bad turn last night with the overwhelming exhaustion hitting me so suddenly I nearly didn't make it to the sofa to lie down.:( Bl00dy lupus.:mad: I'm so fed up with it.

    Right, onwards and upwards......;)
    If your dog thinks you're the best, don't seek a second opinion.;)
  • vanilla I agree with froddy unless there is a HUGE improvement get back in touch with the police - IMHO the head is not taking this seriously enough - and I would still do the letters - you need things to be recorded in writing in case of anything in the future. Regarding the other school - you should speak to them and find out their policy on bullying. (((hugs)))
    toots xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
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  • Valli
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    Valli's list
    Monday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs
    Level One
    Declutter the floors
    Vacuum decluttered floors!
    Tidy coats and shoes, put summer ones away for next summer or in the bin or charity shop bag as required!
    Level Two
    declutter and dust the tops of any units and dust ornaments
    Wipe the sofas if needed or wash covers as required
    Wipe and water plants, dust and deweb
    Declutter and wipe fire surround
    Level Three
    Check house for draughts and make a plan to plug them before it gets REALLY wintery cold!
    Hang pictures/mirrors etc that you have had for AAAAGES and not got round to doing yet!
    Empty and clear out a cupboard or drawer..
    Extras
    1. HHI or HHC doing some task you ALWAYS put off!
    2. binbag dance
    3. Wipe the skirtings and window frames
    4. empty and wash out bins and fill coal/kindling baskets as required
    and

    Post e bay sales
    list more items on e bay
    Ironing
    make job list for week
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Natty68
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    edited 25 October 2010 at 1:33PM
    Oooh I think WWIII has started in my garden – the starlings are taking on the sparrows for the bird food, it doesn’t look good :rotfl:Eeeps now Mr and Mrs Dove and Woody have decided to sit on the lawn, this does not bode well..lol.

    Oh wait it’s been sorted – Woody has just sat in the middle of the bird feeder. Well that certainly stopped anyone getting on it for the near future as he pecks any bird that gets too near him. It’s quite odd having territorial wild birds in my garden..lol. Oooh now the robin has appeared – yep definitely Asbo!! I knew he would appear when we got some mealworms yesterday while shopping in Wilko’s. I tell you that is one spoilt robin, no wonder he sulks when there is only normal bird food in the feeder, he is a fussy little bird..lol You wouldn’t believe I had animals the amount of birds that appear in the garden..

    Ooh I just saw the little harvest mouse pop his head out of his little hidey hole under the dog bed, in the garden..lol. Now that would explain why Bear has been like a dog possessed everytime he goes out for a widdle..he knows the mouse is back for the winter..lol. That will mean the frog is somewhere nearby as well.. Don’t ask!!!

    Mmmm I am loving the lists that keep appearing, as well as the normal everyday ones. I think I am going to have to adopt this idea, that way I can manage things at my pace I think. Especially as I have to get myself organised for Chrimbo etc. I really want to make a christmas cake this year, as well as a christmas pudding..so we will see.

    Just had my Organised Mum delivery – I’m a happy bunny, I can update the calender, play around with the Shopping Book etc. Oooh and I placed a lovely order for some more Yankee Candles..shouldn’t have really but it will be my last one before the New Year, hopefully!!!

    Frodders sorry to hear about Plymouth, hope they manage to sort it all out :D:D
    Toots your list doesn’t appear to be shrinking :eek:You aren’t adding to it are you? ;)
    Msg how are you doing honey?
    Hugs Vanilla, not sure what has been going on with your DD’s school but you need a few hugs :D
    Welcome to the newbies :D
    Mandi well done on your roast potatoes :D
    LL – lots of special hugs for you sweetie, good to see you posting. Hopefully you are healing nicely, and aren’t in too much pain anymore, after your fall.:A
    Piggers – ooh I could scream at KH for you…:mad:
    Nattyt hope you are okay after your hospital visit this morning, hopefully it wasn’t anything serious. Oooh that feels funny typing to another natty..lol

    Monday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Empty and clear out a cupboard or drawer..
    Extras
    1. HHI or HHC doing some task you ALWAYS put off!
    2. binbag dance
    3. Wipe the skirtings and window frames
    4. empty and wash out bins and fill coal/kindling baskets as required


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  • vanilla
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    vanilla I agree with froddy unless there is a HUGE improvement get back in touch with the police - IMHO the head is not taking this seriously enough - and I would still do the letters - you need things to be recorded in writing in case of anything in the future. Regarding the other school - you should speak to them and find out their policy on bullying. (((hugs)))
    toots xx

    I'm hoping the head will see me at hometime and fill me in on whats been done. To be honest i can't see it happening. I'm taking the letter in tomorrow as then there has been a verbal complaint and a formal.

    I've spoken to the other school and they only have 2 places left but she remembered me from last year and that was going to move them because of bullying. So she's going to see if the board will extend the numbers. She thinks they will see it as i've given the school the chance so sort it out but it's been going on again. The other school is to ring me back in a couple of days.

    To be honest the other school is fantastic, loads to do, toys at breaktime, loads of staff about, extra help if stuggling with work. Completely different from the school there at now.

    Fire lit and Rhys snoozing, so i'm gonna chill for awhile.
    Sometimes it seems that the going is just too rough.
    And things go wrong no matter what I do.
    Now and then it seems that life is just too much.
    But you've got the love I need to see me through.
    :j :j
  • toochoosey
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    Good that you have started the ball rolling at the other school vanilla xx

    Coffee now and HHI at 1:30.....join me if you can xx
  • Dustykitten
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    Vanilla - unless it is going to be really difficult for you to get to the new school then seriously consider it. This has gone on for far too long now. Whatever you decide you need to do a formal complaint and inform the police IMHO

    Bedroom and hall all done (bar the window deep cleaning :o)

    going to do a couple of hours in the garden now as rain is forcast tomorrow
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
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