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can banks do this with benefit money
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There's no way round.
Either you:
-arrange a small overdraft or
-get your mum to take out a fixed amount (less than whole amount) leaving some money in to cover direct debits or
-cancel direct debits.
I think most of us know how tricky it can be operating around a Zero balance,
predicting when direct debits MAY hit, when payments MAY go in,
trying to avoid any overdraft charges.
It's very tricky.
If your mum is not a big spender & you can get her to take out a a smaller fixed amount,
I'd arrange a small overdraft, as it's very useful having bills paid by direct debit.
Then you know you won't be hit by outrageous charges & bills are automatically paid.
You just keep an eye every so often, once you know the routine of when bills hit the account & when your mum withdraws money.
Also best to arrange for direct debits to hit over 1-2 week period, so you don't have to constantly check account balance. After the 1-2 week period you know no other DDs are due until next month.
Keeps it simple for you.
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I'm not sure an overdraft would actually help though - say she had a £50 overdraft, the cash machine would tell her she had an extra £50 to spend, so she'd then maybe draw that out too, and the DDs would still bounce. I think, although DDs are convenient, cancelling them may be the best option. She could pay her bills in cash over the bank counter - she'd be able to withdraw whatever she wanted, then go to the counter and pay the bills, and whatever cash she had left she could spend.Amazon sellers club - member number 63.
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AndyR wrote:I'm not sure an overdraft would actually help though - say she had a £50 overdraft, the cash machine would tell her she had an extra £50 to spend, so she'd then maybe draw that out too, and the DDs would still bounce. I think, although DDs are convenient, cancelling them may be the best option. She could pay her bills in cash over the bank counter - she'd be able to withdraw whatever she wanted, then go to the counter and pay the bills, and whatever cash she had left she could spend.0
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Could you not draw out money on your mum's behalf on a weekly basis ( I imagine you have a good relationship), or maybe you could open a joint account.
also, I'm pretty sure there's official ways of you having control over her finances if she has mental health problems0 -
tiamaria wrote:also, I'm pretty sure there's official ways of you having control over her finances if she has mental health problems
Before scrapping the DDs, you need to consider whether she'd get her act together to go out and PAY bills. I know I wouldn't ...Signature removed for peace of mind0
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