We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Mother in law challenges!

2»

Comments

  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    tluscombe wrote: »
    Thanks for all the comments.

    The problem with having the treatment in Italy is the convalesence and her ability - or probable lack of it - to travel after the op. I'm not too worried about the planned conversion of the downstairs rooms - will do most of it myself - but don't think I can get it done in time.

    I'll follow up on the habitually resident info, very useful.

    Would it not be possible for MIL to have the operation in Italy and for one of the family to go over to help her over there with convalesence and for her to come back over to the UK once she is better able to travel? It would also give you more time to get a good builder get the accommodation sorted out.
  • Again, thanks to all. Very difficult for us to care for her in Italy as my wife is disabled and I have work commitments. I can fit the odd day and the weekends into projects! Anyway, she seems to have decided to stay on her own in Italy, so the pressure is off.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354.2K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.3K Spending & Discounts
  • 247.2K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 603.8K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.4K Life & Family
  • 261.4K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.