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Boyfriend staying....

Hi I have trawled this site but cant find a thread the same as my circumstances. I get wftc - my fella stays over twice a week, sometimes three, am i breaking any rules? he does not contribute to my household income, he has his own home and works full time. I dont want to be doing anything I shouldnt.

Many thanks
Jo

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  • NASA_2
    NASA_2 Posts: 5,571 Forumite
    For WTC you are probably ok.
  • I would agree with NASA, but it may be worth ringing the HMRC to run it past them. Make sure you get the adviser's name and the time and date to cover yourself.
  • jolo_2
    jolo_2 Posts: 22 Forumite
    thanks guys, - is there an actual allowed number of days or any fixed rule?
  • jolo wrote: »
    thanks guys, - is there an actual allowed number of days or any fixed rule?
    No there isn't, each case is treated on it's own merits.
  • jolo_2
    jolo_2 Posts: 22 Forumite
    ok, so just out of interest, why do you think I will be ok?
  • NASA_2
    NASA_2 Posts: 5,571 Forumite
    Tax Credits are quite lax with their regulations. Unless you state to them you are a couple they seem to be prepared to believe people are single claimants.

    If you were on a 'social security' benefit administered by the DWP then you would have more to think about.
  • anewman
    anewman Posts: 9,200 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I say don't mention it until you make the commitment to actually move in together. You have your own individual properties, if someone says tips them off saying they're living as a couple then you have an easy response to it.
  • NASA wrote: »
    Tax Credits are quite lax with their regulations. Unless you state to them you are a couple they seem to be prepared to believe people are single claimants.

    If you were on a 'social security' benefit administered by the DWP then you would have more to think about.

    Er, just because there is laxity doesn't mean system should be abused!
    "fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts." (Bertrand Russell)
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