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House in childrens name to avoid care home fees in future?

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  • Horizon81
    Horizon81 Posts: 1,594 Forumite
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    pollypenny wrote: »

    No. she's out out screw others pensioners, like me, who still pay tax. The 'government' is us. I don't mind helping someone in need, but not someone, who has been devious.

    Someone in need? You mean someone who's squandered whatever money they had, or just not bothered to work for any. I'd say they were the devious ones!
  • pollypenny
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    Well, there are some people who have had a hard life and been unable to save. I am happy to contribute to a welfare state to help those - not people who can well afford to pay their way, but give their assets to their kids.
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  • Errata
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    pollypenny wrote: »
    Well, there are some people who have had a hard life and been unable to save. I am happy to contribute to a welfare state to help those - not people who can well afford to pay their way, but give their assets to their kids.

    Same here, and it's worth bearing in mind that any house owned by someone retired or close to retirment may have only cost them a few thousand when they bought it. It may have substantially increased in value since then, but they didn't have to do anything to promote that increase.
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  • loracan1
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    It doesn't mention it in the opening post, but is your Mum aware of your proposal?
  • pollypenny
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    OP could, of course, look after his mum in his own house.
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  • purple12
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    I know these are points that have already been made but I have quite a lot of experience in this area.
    Firstly it is inevitable that the systems of paying for care is going to change over this Parliament. A commission is due to report on this next year and then, another Parliament might change things in different ways etc etc. One thing that is absolutely certain is that the situation is not going to stay the same as it is now so betting about what might happen in a couple of decades (or more/or never) might not be wise.

    Secondly, as stated, it might be more favourable to use the money from a house sale to pay for a much nicer residential home than one the council might fund! (there are some wonderful care homes that can be funded but the more you are able to pay, the more likely there is to be a better standard of care - this is a VERY general assumption but still, certainly something I'd want to bear in mind if it were related to a family member of mine).

    The last thing to bear in mind is that a tiny minority of older adults actually end up needing residential care.
  • katyk_2
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    What happens if you get married, then later divorced and your soon to be ex wants their share of your "property"?

    What if you have a run of bad luck or illness and your "asset" means that you don't get the full benefits to which you would otherwise be entitled?

    It's a nice idea in theory but it's not a risk free strategy doing it the way you suggest.

    I know someone in a similar position who jointly 'owns' her parents home with 2 siblings, on the basis that they get to live there as long as possible. This lady's marriage can be a bit rocky at times and may not last and, whilst I do not think he would, does this mean her husband could try to make her sell her share if they were to split? She only owns 1/3 of the home so how could he force a sale? Likewise I believe there is something in writing which prevents the sale whilst mum/dad are there,

    Could make a massive difference in a settlement as her share would probably be worth £60-£70K
  • Mojisola
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    katyk wrote: »
    I know someone in a similar position who jointly 'owns' her parents home with 2 siblings, on the basis that they get to live there as long as possible. This lady's marriage can be a bit rocky at times and may not last and, whilst I do not think he would, does this mean her husband could try to make her sell her share if they were to split? She only owns 1/3 of the home so how could he force a sale? Likewise I believe there is something in writing which prevents the sale whilst mum/dad are there,

    Could make a massive difference in a settlement as her share would probably be worth £60-£70K

    He couldn't force a sale but the value of her share of the house would be taken into account.
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