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Feeling really peed off!!

3 of my buyers tonight (we are talking less than 20 mins ago have paid by paypal! good!!! no probs!!

However each and everyone of them have either messaged me through ebay or on the paypal receipt telling me they have paid !!!(as if i didn't know!!) and" Trust you will now send on. I will leave feedback upon receipt and hope you will do same.":mad: (or similiar )

I always email when buyer has paid and say" thanks for prompt payment and that i aim to post tomorrow, and will email when i have done so"!!!

What's wrong with everyone today!!!:mad:
Never had this before!!:mad:


Ignore me!!LOL:rotfl:
I feel better for the rant!!
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  • Im fed up to. I've been outbid on 6 books & cant get on to bid again. All I get is page cannot be displayed!!!!!!!!!! :(
  • mom23
    mom23 Posts: 746 Forumite
    LOL:rotfl: Well i'm even more fed up cos my items ended at a lot less than i thought, i had loads of watchers and bids but the bids did not change at all today:confused:
    It's not funny really,
    i really want to:cry:
  • C_Ronaldo
    C_Ronaldo Posts: 4,732 Forumite
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    ts_aly2000 wrote:
    People as of late are walking round with their silly hats on. So many are negative, paranoid, suspicious, don't go out doors.. heaven forbid.

    Oh you rant all you like. :) I'm holding all mine in. ;)

    About to NPB someone in a few hours. Bought an item from me with BIN last Sunday, hasn't paid me, yet has continued buying right throughout the previous week. Not impressed. A newbie buyer too, so I'm guessing he changed his mind.


    if he changed his mind why didnt he tell you that
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  • ~cleo~
    ~cleo~ Posts: 583 Forumite
    ts_aly2000 wrote:
    About to NPB someone in a few hours. Bought an item from me with BIN last Sunday, hasn't paid me, yet has continued buying right throughout the previous week. Not impressed. A newbie buyer too, so I'm guessing he changed his mind.


    i hate that why do people do that its soooo annoying

    ebay has been really getting to me for weeks i think im on the verge of giving up with it
    :rolleyes: Democracy is a process by which the people are free to choose the man who will get the blame.:j
  • mom23
    mom23 Posts: 746 Forumite
    ~cleo~ wrote:
    i hate that why do people do that its soooo annoying

    ebay has been really getting to me for weeks i think im on the verge of giving up with it

    I'm on the verge of giving up evey week!!LOL but i still keep going!!:confused:
  • ~cleo~
    ~cleo~ Posts: 583 Forumite
    yeah me too i guess :D
    :rolleyes: Democracy is a process by which the people are free to choose the man who will get the blame.:j
  • Im fed up to. I've been outbid on 6 books & cant get on to bid again. All I get is page cannot be displayed!!!!!!!!!! :(


    Me too - it's soooo annoying! :mad:
    I only exist in my own mind - if you can see, hear or read me, you are a product of my imagination.
  • mom23 wrote:
    3 of my buyers tonight (we are talking less than 20 mins ago have paid by paypal! good!!! no probs!!

    However each and everyone of them have either messaged me through ebay or on the paypal receipt telling me they have paid !!!(as if i didn't know!!) and" Trust you will now send on. I will leave feedback upon receipt and hope you will do same.":mad: (or similiar )

    I always email when buyer has paid and say" thanks for prompt payment and that i aim to post tomorrow, and will email when i have done so"!!!

    What's wrong with everyone today!!!:mad:
    Never had this before!!:mad:
    But how many millions of other sellers aren't as considerate as you? I think its always useful to start some kind of none automated dialogue with a seller. and in a market place where feedback is king, and some sellers are getting lazy/too bogged down to leave feedback a gentle nudge is worthwhile - it also shows the buyer is 'human'
  • ts_aly2000 wrote:
    I'm not sure. I sent an invoice on the Tuesday, 2 days later. Then on Friday asked if everything was ok. And this morning I sent a message through eBay asking why he hadn't paid yet continued to buy another 10-items in the past week.

    Yes, I'm mildly peeved, and the mail was worded quite nicely. More along the lines of; Why would you do this to me? If you changed your mind then just let me know.

    As a newbie buyer I just don't think he's knows what's what, and is hoping I'm just going to forget it. Not until he gives me £2 for my fees and final credit I won't. It was a bargain too, I'm just selling off all of my old 1980's computer stuff before going into hospital next week for breast augmentation.

    Soooo. All of my auctions have been wound down in light of this coming week, and I have this newbie that I have to chase when I come back on morphine. Great!

    And I can see from the feedback that he's left someone else that he's logged in today. 17-Sep-06 10:57.

    :( What a git :(

    And are you a Newbie seller? The chances of you getting your £2 and FVF are about 0 % Just file a NPB relist and move on
  • Hi
    I too am really pi**ed off this week. I really do feel like jacking it all in. Why can't people just be pleasant? They really are terrible at the mo. Do you think that there is something in the water? There hasn't been an item on Tonight about ebay and scams recently that I have missed has there?
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