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Will I ever get out of this mess?

Here I am at 24 with £8,400 of debts (credit card, store card, loan, overdraft). Every month is the same. I get paid and within a matter of days I'm overdrawn in my overdraft. I'm being charged £80 a month in bank charges because of payments being requested and not getting paid. It's just getting worse and I worse. I have no money (I'm not even kidding, I have nothing) now until 24 August.

I just wish I could get a loan to consolidate all of the debt, but because of my mess last year (missed payments), I'm declined. I feel like I'm never ever going to get out of this tricky situation.
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  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    Hi

    If you are getting bank charges for missed payments then you would seem not to be able to afford everything each month. You really need to do a statement of affairs http://www.makesenseofcards.com/soacalc.html so you can work out exactly how far short you are each month and see what you might be able to cut back on.

    If you also post the results on here people might be able to advise you on possible options / solutions for your situation.

    I would guess without making any serious changes and/or possibly entering a DMP then you probably won't get out of this mess.

    If you know payments are going to bounce then you would be better off cancelling the DD. That way at least you are not wasting money in bank fees.
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
  • Miss_Fox_2
    Miss_Fox_2 Posts: 108 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 1200
    Total monthly income.................... 1200

    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 510
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 128
    Rent.................................... 150

    Mobile phone............................ 45

    Groceries etc. ......................... 60
    Other travel............................ 120

    Buildings insurance..................... 15
    Other insurance......................... 15
    Entertainment........................... 40
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1083

    Assets
    House value (Gross)..................... 110000

    Total Assets............................ 110000


    Secured & HP Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly
    Mortgage...................... 110000...(510)
    Secured Debt.................. 4000.....(128)
    Total secured & HP debts...... 114000

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly
    Credit Card....................1600......40
    Store Card.....................1000......40
    Overdraft......................1800......40
    Total unsecured debts..........4400......120


    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 1,200
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,083
    Available for debt repayments........... 117
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 120
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -3

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 110,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -114,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -4,400
    Net Assets.............................. -8,400
  • Miss_Fox_2
    Miss_Fox_2 Posts: 108 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    ...Although I feel like I'm missed a few things. I have a spreadsheet at home that helps me with my outgoing payments. The situation is, I don't account for the monthly bank charges so my money is generally all covered but because of the charges, I'm struggling. I know it's my own fault...
  • BigCraigJohn
    BigCraigJohn Posts: 1,082 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Open a new account, pref a basic account that won't go overdrawn or charge for bouncing payments then treat any overdraft as a debt.
    Will help you feel a bit more in control.
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,560 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Can you advise what you APRs are for all the debts?

    Also, is this because you are getting charges for unpaid/bouncing SO and DDS or daily/interest charges?
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    What is the situation with mortgage and rent? is it a shared ownership home that you live in?
    You seem to have a lot of costs missing such as utility bills, tv licence etc? does someone else pay these?

    Are you able to do any overtime or increase your income at all?

    Are you in contract for your phone? have you asked if you can drop to a cheaper tarrif?
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
  • tbourner
    tbourner Posts: 1,434 Forumite
    As suggested it would be a good idea to get a new bank account, maybe the Co-op one as that's recommended on here a lot:
    http://www.co-operativebank.co.uk/servlet/Satellite/1193206368743,CFSweb/Page/Bank-CurrentAccounts?WT.svl=copy
    Move all your payments into that account, cancel all DDs and SOs from the old account then move your pay into the new account.
    Your old account will probably be closed and you'll be asked to pay off the overdraft, and then is the time to start writing letters to everyone telling them your situation and how much you can pay them each month.
    Trev. Having an out-of-money experience!
    C'MON! Let's get this debt sorted!!
  • husemin
    husemin Posts: 80 Forumite
    ...I disagree with some people above, DONT get a new bank account because if you did and you treated your overdraft as a debt, the bank will see that your not keeping the bank account active eg, money going in (at least £500 -£1500) a month. If you dont service this account they will ask for all the overdraft back at once!
    Therefore keep the overdraft account as the active one.

    H
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    husemin, that's the point. Once they recall it then it's just a debt like any other. And if you have a different bank account then they can't just take money whenever they want, or recall it just after payday.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • tbourner
    tbourner Posts: 1,434 Forumite
    Exactly, if the bank think you're having trouble and they're likely to not get their money back, they can close your overdraft and turn it into a debt anyway, except they won't tell you they'll just absorb ALL your pay to pay off as much of the debt as possible, leaving you in the 'beep'.
    Trev. Having an out-of-money experience!
    C'MON! Let's get this debt sorted!!
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