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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread Part 8!

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  • gien
    gien Posts: 1,649 Forumite
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    jo1972 wrote: »
    RN, I'm in :j thanks for having the idea ;) :T

    Sim, I get it every afternoon, without fail! I usually drink on it though :undecided I wish I could help you, probably someone like Sparkles, 365, MP to name a few could help?

    ETA: I guess it's all about keeping busy?

    The bells are a b*** er and I ring my own. I don't have a physical craving as such but my mind really wants that blurring of the edges of real life- that squidgy, soft, comfortable place.
    Recently I've just caved in at the first ding a ling and although I don't drink a lot on the scale of things it really does affect me.
    So far no AF days this month and I excuse myself as I am still on holiday but really that's a poor excuse.

    Have a nice holiday Jo - you off anywhere?
    Trying to keep in budget.

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  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Stir fry veg with rice and prawns with chilli and indonesian soy sauce and an omlette cut into strips on top

    Yum yum - now onto a cuppa and a wispa waiting for the 100m showdown between Gay and Bolt

    That sounds like a meal that doesn't know when to stop! :rotfl:

    And it really is testosterone central, isn't it? :eek: :D
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  • jo1972
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    I'm going away on Saturday week, got all next week at home to catch up with the washing :eek:
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  • jo1972
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    gien wrote: »
    Have a nice holiday Jo - you off anywhere?

    Off to Norfolk, it better be sunny there :naughty:
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  • gien wrote: »
    The bells are a b*** er and I ring my own. I don't have a physical craving as such but my mind really wants that blurring of the edges of real life- that squidgy, soft, comfortable place.

    I know exactly what you mean Gien. I feel exactly like that this evening.

    RN - count me on for today's challenge too.

    DB x
  • 115K
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    honeybear wrote: »
    Don't knock it, babe. I just had my first AFD for 2 monthis this week :eek:
    Sometimes it's harder after prolonged drinking so well done :)

    Ta HB.:A Well done to you too!

    That magazine was total carp.:D I think I'm going to have a shower and put on some body butter, anything to distract myself from not drinking.
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  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
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    gien wrote: »
    The bells are a b*** er and I ring my own. I don't have a physical craving as such but my mind really wants that blurring of the edges of real life- that squidgy, soft, comfortable place.
    Recently I've just caved in at the first ding a ling and although I don't drink a lot on the scale of things it really does affect me.
    So far no AF days this month and I excuse myself as I am still on holiday but really that's a poor excuse.

    That sums up how I used to feel and the reasons I told myself on a Fri/Sat (poss Thurs/Sun)

    Feels nice to have let go of those feelings for the time being

    It can be done and life is comfortable without it - took a bit of getting used to however the thought that got me there was realising Friday night is no different to any other night and I didn't have to have a drink afterall
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  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Gosh, i find commentators exceptionally annoying! :mad:

    Gien & DB, good luck with fighting the bells :)

    115K, enjoy the bath :)

    I'm off to read & hopefully get an early night with some decent sleep :)

    xx
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  • Hl DB I'll add you to the (short) list.
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  • jo1972
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    Bah, how many hours in now.....it's dragging :(
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