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Have recently separated and am living in marital home with 3 'big' kids. Hubby forcing house sale, but not sure if I would be better to rent or buy. Don't know how to work this out. Been to a solicitor but found he wasn't much help :( any suggestions?

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  • Will you have a deposit available from the sale/settlement?
    Find out what sort of mortgage you can get on your income/deposit, then check if there are houses for sale that fit your needs, at that price range.
    Are there rental properties that fit your need available at a figure you could afford?
    Research your region's recent house price movements, so you are not panicked into buying if there is no rush.
    Act in haste, repent at leisure.

    dunstonh wrote:
    Its a serious financial transaction and one of the biggest things you will ever buy. So, stop treating it like buying an ipod.
  • TinyTJ
    TinyTJ Posts: 12 Forumite
    Thanks for replying. Have checked out the situation and have decided I can neither afford to rent or buy, so am sitting put! Have another year before the situation can be forced and then I will cross that bridge............;)
  • Running_Horse
    Running_Horse Posts: 11,809 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    How old are your "big kids"?

    That will affect whether you have to sell, and if they are really big they can pay some rent to cover the mortgage.
    Been away for a while.
  • Jowo_2
    Jowo_2 Posts: 8,308 Forumite
    Are you joint owners or is he the sole owner? If he's the sole owner, did you contribute towards the home? Age of children? What kind of child suppport is he offering?

    Find another solicitor!

    These links could be helpful

    http://england.shelter.org.uk/get_advice/families_and_relationships/relationship_breakdown

    http://england.shelter.org.uk/get_advice/families_and_relationships/relationship_breakdown/options_for_homeowners/cohabiting_couples

  • TinyTJ
    TinyTJ Posts: 12 Forumite
    Thanks for replying. Kids are 16, 18 and 20. 1 at colleage, 1 due to start uni and 3rd just got a job 3 weeks ago. Child support a joke, 50 quid a week for the youngest. Joint owners, we both work full time, but he earns triple what I do and stands to inherit a fortune from family!
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