Top table HELP!!

Kazz81

oh dear, I am dreading doing a table plan now

my oh parents are not in the picture, but my dad says they need to be 'represented' on the top table, which means we apparently should have 2 people of his that sit aside him.

I think mine will be even worse as I want my dd close to me and my sis and my parents...yikes!

Bluefire

We are actually considering not having a top table at all, but instead having 3 tables of family (His parents side, my Mum's side and then my Dad's side as my Mum won't sit anywhere near my Dad's partner) and us actually sitting with our closest circle of friends! Should we decide to do that it will probably cause a lot of hassle during the run up to the wedding (my Mum especially won't be happy not sitting with us, not sure how my partner's parents will feel) but things will be a lot easier on the day, which is the important thing I think!

I'm finding seating plans in general a nightmare, I've done 4 different versions so far trying to keep everyone happy and it's just not going to happen...

tamarto

Bluefire wrote: »

We are actually considering not having a top table at all, but instead having 3 tables of family (His parents side, my Mum's side and then my Dad's side as my Mum won't sit anywhere near my Dad's partner) and us actually sitting with our closest circle of friends! Should we decide to do that it will probably cause a lot of hassle during the run up to the wedding (my Mum especially won't be happy not sitting with us, not sure how my partner's parents will feel) but things will be a lot easier on the day, which is the important thing I think!

I'm finding seating plans in general a nightmare, I've done 4 different versions so far trying to keep everyone happy and it's just not going to happen...

As long as no one had to sit next to the person they want to kill, they will all survive, don't tell them before hand and no one will make an issue on the day, although i do know someone who decided to rearrange the table plan at the inlaws wedding! :eek: