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Flylady Challenge - Take 3
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I saw denises stuff there and I do always forget D that you are in NZ. Im like shes done all that already I havnet even finished my first :coffee: yet
Mind you it is early!
So today is the day to get this job hunting nailed.
I must
pack up book & garment for ebay parcels & send
address voucher for MSEr & send PACKED
do menu plan
deal with solicitors pack
send green metropolis book
search internet for new vouchers to keep tesco costs down
clear emails DONE
call union welfare fund re money DONE
call union ofr update DONE, not in
phone freind who is neglected by me
phone 3 agencies
check gumtree
tidy desk hotspot done
do filing
put dry washing away
start looking for Xmas presents for OH
Again start browsing for rented places
cost up removal DONE, apparently they need to survey- it can wait!
do F&F list for solicitor just in case
create masterpiece for dinner
Hope every one has happy flying today
Hugs to all in need of em
Pixxy- I have felt the same way about OHs nad "telling him to do jobs" Its so exasperating. THe only thng I can do is "alter my emotional approach" to use a w**k phrase
1) instead of being pi55ed off- be pleased. At least your OH will do things when TOLD, plenty of OHs would tell you to f off or give you a gobfull of abuse or ignore, so be chuffed with yourself that you have picked a man who is MAN enough to accept direction from his beloved
2) You are not a wife, you are a household manager. this involves delegation. All staff at some time can become disillusioned. Maybe have a one to one and identify some "training needs" and develop those
3) finally remember, if a jobs worth doing , its worth doing yourself. :rotfl:
Imagine what my house is like- Im a control freak I admit it!!!:beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
This Ive come to know...
So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:0 -
Morning all hope everyone is well I am feeling much better thanks to alls kind comments all I did yesterday was DW and made dinner. OH did the kids party run but not much else.
today
kids lunchboxes
wm
dw
swish kitchen
pay 1st of month bills and balance books
std
ds loo
kitchen hall and lounge floors
mend vacuum
vacuum upstairs
IRONING - badger OH to get it done
inventory for pantry and freezer
plan meals for a fortnight to help on money saving and dietLightbulb moment 10-06-06
Total debt £36,996.70 June 2006
Total debt approx £33,000 Oct 2006
Jan 07....to be worked out but may have gone up GULP:mad: :eek:
DFD March 2011
DFW Nerd 111
19 jan 23 feb 5 weeks:( - grocery challenge £2500 -
LYNZ happy jobhunting!! :dance:
i know what you mean with your approach (:D) but still
if let's say cleaning was my 'proper' job (you know what i mean) he would not make a mess straight away and refuse doing things and actually come up with ideas to make it easier.
but because i am 'home anyways' let's just take it for granted :cool:
oooooops! here i go again
it's just finally i am starting to get 'houseproud' and i actually want to have a tidy and clean (!) house - too much to ask
[sigh] oh well, guess i have to attack it as you suggest - i DO like your approach
i just have to actually get him to do things (which he agrees to) right(ish) away and not 2 days later :eek:
ok, back to flying!
- put some clothes away (dd's will follow, she's asleep atm)
- played lots with both kids
- started thinking about what else to do today (no plan so far :think:)
PONDSAVER glad you are feeling better! good on you to have taken it easy yesterday
what's wrong with your vacuum??? are you on a 'special' diet?
talk to you soonI have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work0 -
Isn't it strange have a day off and you find loads more to do the next day I think the gremlins came when I was asleep last night.
today
[STRIKE]kids lunchboxes [/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]wm[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]dw[/STRIKE]loaded but not full
swish kitchen
pay 1st of month bills and balance books
to do today or tomorrow or the weekend....
ds loo
kitchen hall and lounge floors
mend vacuum
vacuum upstairs
IRONING - badger OH to get it done
inventory for pantry and freezer
plan meals for a fortnight to help on money saving and diet
kitchen hotspots
clean kitchen bin
yesterdays job clean porch and door
weekly shop
ebay stuffLightbulb moment 10-06-06
Total debt £36,996.70 June 2006
Total debt approx £33,000 Oct 2006
Jan 07....to be worked out but may have gone up GULP:mad: :eek:
DFD March 2011
DFW Nerd 111
19 jan 23 feb 5 weeks:( - grocery challenge £2500 -
Morning Gang,
Hope everyone well.
Starting to feel like i am flagging now so need to give it renewed effort today. After being out yesterday for most of the day downstairs looks like a tip. Have someone from preschool coming round to play today as well.(Half term here) As its the first time i would like the place to be half decent so:
Today,
Get showered and dressedDone
Make bedsDone
Tidy sitting room
Tackle paper mountain
Hoover
Dust
Put out ashes
Lay new fire
Water plants
S/S downstairs loo
Tidy KitchenDone
brush and mop kitchen floor
Menu plan
Online shop
Laundry catch up
Strain and freeze chicken stock made yesterdayDone
Sort something for lunch and dinner
Think i need some jet powered wings today, only got until 1pm:rolleyes:
Feel exhausted already.:o
Hoping the fact that i have written it all down rather than it all spinning around in my head will stop me flapping unnecessarily
BoL to all in their efforts
Sunny Angel0 -
Morning all!:hello:
DD's went to breakfast club this morning so I get an extra hour
house
meal plan/grocery list - important cos I got a bit slack when dd's were away
washing
ironing - pile's nearly as tall as me now!:o
kitchen sides - where does the stuff come from??:rolleyes:
5 min whizz round house
work
find my desk (and not by just putting everything into 1 big pile!)
invoicing
& also school fund accounts
Hope everyone has a good day:D0 -
back
ds is at nursery (without tears :j )
it's a fab day with blue sky and sun but FREEEEEEEEZING [shiver icon]
- folded washing
- w/m is on (only 1 more to go and basket is empty :T )
- dirty dishes in d/w (still not full)
allright! i think a to-do-list is necessary
short term tdl
- meal planner
- shopping list
- sort lunch for dd and i
- start dinner
- clean porch
- mop downstairs
long (long) term tdl
- sort my clothes
- sort OH clothes
- sort dd clothes
- sort ds clothes
- 2 hotspots in dining room
- filing (!)
- pc desk (!)
- under sink utility room
- cupboard behind door
- windows
- spare room
- ebay
very long term tdl
- office (it's OH's room really but someone has to do it:o )I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work0 -
I'm still here . . .
Sorry to be so confusing to everyone - we don't have a site like this in NZ although I've sent a few suggestions a few peoples way!!! So if you don't mind . . . you're stuck with me
Still to do tonight . . .
At least one load of laundry - washing now
Sweep floors - kitchen and entry - done
Change two beds - left till the morning
Watch some quality TV - if I can find any LOL - couldn't find any!
Tomorrow:
Empty DW;
Sort dinner;
Strip two beds and remake;
Two more loads of laundry and round to MILs to hang on her clothesline;
Smarten up outside entry;
Water plants inside and out;
Get haircut!;
Go to The Christmas Shoppe to buy a NZ-type ornament to send overseas;
Write Christmas cards to send overseas;
Get laundry in (I can't wait till we get our own clothesline!);
Do dinner;
Feet up!
This time I'm really off to bed.
Night nightIf there is to be any peace, it will come through being, not having - Henry MillerM.A.C.A.W Member . . Wannabe Flybaby0 -
Morning... SINK STILL SHINY !
Denise... DS number 1 is distraught ! All Blacks v England on Sunday in Twickenham (or Monday your time)... and Dan Carter has been dropped from the team !!!
I think he has been benched !!! What's goin on? Any inside info to console DS would be gratefully received.... Dan Carter isn't even injured.... he's benched !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What an outrage ! (DS words, not mine).
Rant over.... have a great day everyone! I gotta go to work..
Lynz.... "gumtree?" do you have a kuckaburra? (sp) xxxxxx0 -
PiixxySu wrote:PONDSAVER what's wrong with your vacuum??? are you on a 'special' diet?
The vacuum needs it belt replacing or at least thats what I think is wrong with it need to find belt then put in infront of OH's nose and kick him up the butt!!
I have started the Rosemary conely class as I also need a kick up the but to loose my baby weight and dd is now 20 months need to loose about 2.5 stone.
Denise - I love to read what you've done by the time I get up - its kinda inspiring:)Lightbulb moment 10-06-06
Total debt £36,996.70 June 2006
Total debt approx £33,000 Oct 2006
Jan 07....to be worked out but may have gone up GULP:mad: :eek:
DFD March 2011
DFW Nerd 111
19 jan 23 feb 5 weeks:( - grocery challenge £2500
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