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What will you talk about after you are married?

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  • picklepick
    picklepick Posts: 4,048 Forumite
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    I assumed the question meant, what will you be doing to occupy yourself after the wedding planning is over and therefore talking about with OH.

    Thats why i put babies. We both want a honeymoon baby. Of course we've already talked about it before getting married aswell......
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  • lolly1981
    lolly1981 Posts: 746 Forumite
    well my cousin and i have decided to raise money for charity (we will be trekking the great wall of china :) ) so we have a lot of events to paln and money to raise...its already pushing wedding thoughts from my brains lol i get married in 15 days :D not much left to do really so need something else to think about lol
  • Kavanne
    Kavanne Posts: 5,093 Forumite
    NOTHING

    I will be glad it's over :p
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  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    We don't really talk too much about the wedding right now anyway, I just get on with planning it and showing him my plans and he pretends to care! :rotfl:

    My big worry is what do I do to occupy myself after the wedding! Right now I can spend hours on wedding websites printing out ideas for my wedding book, checking around for bargains, planning silly little details that no-one but me will notice... I think once I'm married I'll take over the planning of my brother's wedding just to keep me sane! Then I'll have to hope that by then someone else is getting married so I can stick my nose in there too! :rotfl:
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  • hayleythedaisy
    hayleythedaisy Posts: 1,692 Forumite
    We'll have been married a month tomorrow and I am starting to get my head round the idea of not planning it, so I am organising a joint 5 way birthday party, and am decorating as a surprise while my husband is away for the weekend. (I was up til 5 painting and started again at half 8!) We would like to have a first anniversary baby for various timing reasons, but I'm not sure if either of us will want to wait that long!!!
    (You'll have a million thank you cards to write, wedding photo's to look at and choose, gifts to find homes for, dress to clean and socialising to get done if you're anything like us!!!)
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  • 4nnabella
    4nnabella Posts: 1,889 Forumite
    It'll be my 30th birthday 3 months after we get married so will plan a big party for that! And work on getting pregnant too.. ;)
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  • deano23285
    deano23285 Posts: 229 Forumite
    the next holiday, new car, buying more of the house (its shared ownership)
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