fantastic day 21st daily chat

scaredy_cat

Bunny, this job has been a temporary position since last aug!! i knew it was going to end but hoped it would last until i finish college.

Bunnyinthelights

Ah Scaredy, still pants eh.

My manager has just gone mad as 2 of the 'offenders' have gone to the bathroom to obviously !!!!! about us all. I know I have a great manager in her which is nice

BILLIE

That's good Bunny, but she has got to deal with the situation and nip it in the bud otherwise it festers. I was in the position where my boss was leaving and if he had stepped in, as he should have, it would have looked as though he was treating me differently. Have now been told by new boss who was made very aware of the situation by others, that if anything ever occurs he will most definitely deal with it. It has occurred and he hasn't, so it's up to me to just tolerate unless it really gets bad again and then I will take out a grievance which maybe I should have done last time. Hind sight a wonderful thing. xx

Snaggles

Ahh Bun, that's horrible. Your manager really should be stepping in if the situation is rumbling on and not getting resolved. It seems so silly and childish but it happens such a lot.

And things are going amazingly well with B thanks. He is lovely and I am so happy. Talking to him was amazing!

Bunnyinthelights

I think it is getting sorted, I can't help thinking its my fault.

Glad things are going well, so pleased for you xxx

Gemmzie

When's the big meet then Snags?

littlemisschocolate

Bunny, none of this is your fault you're a lovely, warming and caring individual. By the sounds of it she's threatened by your natural happy go lucky attitude and is possibly afraid of losing her 'Queen Bee' position within the office.

You're doing the right thing ignoring it.

Keep smiliing, I know it's hard!

Cx

Bunnyinthelights

I'd normally be ok, I am tired, have a cold and hormonal (Aunt Flo...) so defences are down.

I have spelled that incorrectly havent I?

littlemisschocolate

Bunny, you poor thing. Hormones are a girls worst enemy! Have some chocolate and a glass of wine when you get home tonight.

LMC x

spud30

BILLIE wrote: »

Your right Spud, but sadly particularly amongst women it is very common. Starts with one thinking she king pin and everyone should listen to her, and they usually do, and then she has all and sundry eating out of her hand. Anyways onwards and upwards Bunny, you are better than they so ignore and don't stoop to their level. Billie x

I know hun. I worked in an office for over 20 years, and experienced my fair share of it. At least kids tell you exactly what they think of you

Bun, hope it gets sorted out soon. Your manager sounds like a good un :grouphug: