The Bankrupt Inn - Part 7

Angiepange

ifwisheswerehorses... wrote: »

Oh dear Angie, don't be sorry what's up sweetheart?

Stupid silly row with mr AP Thought we'd been really strong through all the BR and the problems with MRS, but the reality is, its all starting to really affect our relationship now. We never argue like we did tonight I cant take much more If, nor can he. its the not knowing whats going to happen to us, all we could talk about today was facing eviction if the rescue fails. Mr AP started talking about just cutting our losses and moving down to the west country where his family are. The kids overheard and our daughter got so upset, shes 14 and doesnt want to leave her friends and school.

We have been so strong and united through all this crap and now when it matters most, things are just falling apart.

Sorry ive said too much, just a bit emotional at the moment. Probably a bad idea to come on here and vent a bit

confused76

it's ok angie, you can always delete your post, i didn't quote it

ahh it's so hard...your mortgage rescue hasn't been turned down though, so keep going, it could all come through.

it's saturday night, have you both been drinking? emotions get carried away with a drink, perhaps another chat tomorrow?

oh hun, i don't know what to say x

IF

No it's not a bad idea to come on here......I told you before you have to get it all out and we'll listen to you lol x

They always say you take it out on the one you love the most and it is so true. You have and are going through a really traumatic time. You both feel you have failed and are frightened, it's so understandable how you both are feeling.......everyone copes and eventually the reality of your situation creeps up on you both, don't give in and try both of you going out for a walk, a drink just you two and talk without shouting and take it in turns to speak lol x :A

Angiepange

confused76 wrote: »

it's ok angie, you can always delete your post, i didn't quote it

ahh it's so hard...your mortgage rescue hasn't been turned down though, so keep going, it could all come through.

it's saturday night, have you both been drinking? emotions get carried away with a drink, perhaps another chat tomorrow?

oh hun, i don't know what to say x

Thanks Conf, no drink for us, really tight week money wise so cant put it down to that !!!!!!

Just a bad day, and trying to stay strong but couldnt quite get there! I think its because we havent heard anything from anyone with the MR, we are not sure whats going on and we are convinced the bank will fight us over the shortfall.

Did speak to CAB yesterday who advised not to push the bank, as its all at a delicate stage. Fair enough. But that doesnt help us really.

Thanks for your reply though and hope you are ok xxxxxx

Angiepange

ifwisheswerehorses... wrote: »

No it's not a bad idea to come on here......I told you before you have to get it all out and we'll listen to you lol x

They always say you take it out on the one you love the most and it is so true. You have and are going through a really traumatic time. You both feel you have failed and are frightened, it's so understandable how you both are feeling.......everyone copes and eventually the reality of your situation creeps up on you both, don't give in and try both of you going out for a walk, a drink just you two and talk without shouting and take it in turns to speak lol x :A

If, you always say the right thing, thanks sweetheart.

xxxxxxx

confused76

ifwisheswerehorses... wrote: »

No it's not a bad idea to come on here......I told you before you have to get it all out and we'll listen to you lol x

They always say you take it out on the one you love the most and it is so true. You have and are going through a really traumatic time. You both feel you have failed and are frightened, it's so understandable how you both are feeling.......everyone copes and eventually the reality of your situation creeps up on you both, don't give in and try both of you going out for a walk, a drink just you two and talk without shouting and take it in turns to speak lol x :A

wise words from If as always :Axxx

Angiepange wrote: »

Thanks Conf, no drink for us, really tight week money wise so cant put it down to that !!!!!!

Just a bad day, and trying to stay strong but couldnt quite get there! I think its because we havent heard anything from anyone with the MR, we are not sure whats going on and we are convinced the bank will fight us over the shortfall.

Did speak to CAB yesterday who advised not to push the bank, as its all at a delicate stage. Fair enough. But that doesnt help us really.

Thanks for your reply though and hope you are ok xxxxxx

ahh wish i could help...i'm not great with words or saying the right thing but i'm always here to listen things will get better....you're just in that really tense not knowing what's going on bit....as soon as you have your answer on the MR things will be different

love n hugs xxxxx

IF

Angiepange wrote: »

If, you always say the right thing, thanks sweetheart.

xxxxxxx

I know you like to be in control of things......sometimes you have to let go and he's the only one who knows exactly how you feel because he's going through too. Love ya Angie and big big hugs lol x:A

Angiepange

confused76 wrote: »

wise words from If as always :Axxx



ahh wish i could help...i'm not great with words or saying the right thing but i'm always here to listen things will get better....you're just in that really tense not knowing what's going on bit....as soon as you have your answer on the MR things will be different

love n hugs xxxxx

Yeah you are right, sorry for sounding off dont mean to be a moaning minnie

Hope everythings good with you Conf :A

Angiepange

ifwisheswerehorses... wrote: »

I know you like to be in control of things......sometimes you have to let go and he's the only one who knows exactly how you feel because he's going through too. Love ya Angie and big big hugs lol x:A

If how did you suss there is a control freak in me :rotfl:

You are a good judge of character, though its not something im too proud about !!!

Love ya too xxxx:A

confused76

Angiepange wrote: »

Yeah you are right, sorry for sounding off dont mean to be a moaning minnie

Hope everythings good with you Conf :A

anytime, no need to apologise either...

i'm fine, just wheezy! and i want to eat the contents of the fridge :ox