Another DFW going for an interview...

Tiff_2

Annie_Fanny wrote:

Tomorrow! EEEK!

Good Luck angel! I'm sure you'll be fine. Will be thinking of you all who are having interviews
Please just remember to put your real name and not your DFW one!;)

MinnieSpender

I'll be thinking you again tomorrow willing the right phone call!

Snaggles

Any news? Got everything crossed - it's making typing difficult, but hey, it's worth it!

kathfisch

I've only just seen this thread but keeping everything crossed that's its good news when they call - for Annie and everyone else having interviews (soon to be me too I hope!! :eek: )

x

Snaggles

Yes, good luck to all the other interviewees too. Hope you all shine as much in your interviews as you do on this forum!

Annie_Fanny

Hey everyone

Got the call but unfortunately I didn't get the job. I couldn't ask for feedback because I was on the verge of tears. Could only manage "Thank you, goodbye". Feel like a loon. And you know what the only thing I can think of doing is coming on here and telling you guys. My partner is at work. I feel like such a failure. Am not very good at not being wanted if you know what I mean. I just want to get on and pay my debts off. I feel so hopeless. I have been rejected for so many jobs in Manchester - what am I doing wrong? I research the organisations, read their literature, study books like 'Great answers to tough interview questions', look around the organisations beforehand if I can, spend hours writing applications, look smart and presentable. It's a f***ing joke and I am just so upset.

Sorry to moan everyone - just wanted to let it out!

Annie

mattbass

Damn :mad:

Annie_Fanny

Thanks.

I am just crying. I figure it is best just to let it all out.

Annie_Fanny

Like my partner says "I am a sensitive little soul".

kathfisch

Oh Annie, its a horrible feeling isn't it? (((hugs)))

I know exactly what you mean about feeling unwanted! You have to try not to let it get to you too much though... once you've got over the first miserable feeling... there could be any number of reasons why they didn't offer it to you but it does not make you a bad person!

When will your partner be home? You need a hug and someone to tell you how great you are - restore a bit of self-confidence. Maybe in a day or two, when you feel more composed, you'll feel up to calling them and asking for some feedback. Good feedback can make you realise it wasn't a rejection of you as such and some (constructive) criticism can hopefully give you something to work on.

Try not to be too hard on yourself... I'm sorry there's not more to say really! Have some more (((hugs))) on me!

Kath x