Is 45 too old for strapless dress?

Hi there all my new friends.

My partner and I are getting married this Summer and I would love to wear a strapless dress, but in a magazine I read that over 40's should NEVER do strapless, not even if the girl in the shop tells you you look fabulous!
So.....should I ignore the advice or think again?
Your opinions would be so much appreciated.
Thank you x
:kisses2:August 1st 2010...so happy I wanna jump up and down on my bed :j
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  • hayleythedaisy
    hayleythedaisy Posts: 1,692 Forumite
    Not at all, what an odd thing to say in a mag! You should choose whatever suits you and looks right. Take a good honest friend with you and see what suits!
    Congrats and happy planning
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  • Minxy_Bella
    Minxy_Bella Posts: 1,948 Forumite
    Last year, I re-married at the grand old age of 44 and I wore a strapless dress. A princessy one with sparkles and everything! (Including a St Tropez fake tan!) LOL

    You wear whatever you feel like, missus - don't let 'rules' written by a twenty-something fashionista stop you from doing what you want. It's all the Emperor's new clothes anyway!

    Have a great day!
  • BritRael
    BritRael Posts: 1,158 Forumite
    It depends on the person: I've seen some 20 somethings who shouldn't wear strapless and some 50 somethings who look great :)
    Marching On Together

    I've upped my standards...so up yours! :)
  • debjay
    debjay Posts: 2,091 Forumite
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    Hope there are no "rules" as I will be 41 when I wear mine :o
  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    jinnyfrizz wrote: »
    .... in a magazine I read that over 40's should NEVER do strapless...

    If we all did as we were told, the world would be a very boring place!!

    And if that were true, I'm bloomin' scuppered, as I'm 46 and my dress is strapless ivory silk...and my eldest son is giving me away :D

    So I would say "Bo77ocks" to that magazine!!
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    A couple on months ago I was in a dress shop waiting for my friend to try on dresses and saw a woman in her forties try on a beautiful strapless dress but she was unsure if she could wear it, I convinced her that she could as she looked incredible! If you have the figure and the skin for it I'd say go for it! Like BritRael said, there are 20-somethings out there who shouldn't be wearing strapless, age is not the issue here, it's about what looks good on you! Throw that page of the magazine out and wear whatever you want!
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
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  • Sammy85_2
    Sammy85_2 Posts: 1,741 Forumite
    I would say, try on a stapless and some strappy dresses.. see what suits YOU...
    :jProud mummy to a beautiful baby girl born 22/12/11 :j
  • Birdie85 wrote: »
    If you have the figure and the skin for it I'd say go for it! Like BritRael said, there are 20-somethings out there who shouldn't be wearing strapless, age is not the issue here, it's about what looks good on you!

    I agree with this 100%
  • frannyann
    frannyann Posts: 10,970 Forumite
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    I will be 39 and 1/2 when I wear my strapless gown! However having the same wobbles as you I am having a jacket made to go over the top and once I've had a drink or two I am sure I will be flashing my bingo wings to the world :D
    :rotfl:Ahahah got my signature removed for claiming MSE thought it was too boring :rotfl:
  • janiebaby29
    janiebaby29 Posts: 1,783 Forumite
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    edited 11 May 2010 at 2:17PM
    I got married at 43 and wore a halterneck , which was lovely , go for what suits you and what makes you feel good ;)
    i can post a pic if you want ??
    The original janiebaby ;)
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