Should I go or should I stay?

studentgrant

Yeah, it affects all that we plan to do in the future, marriage, a family. But it affects every day things, even just going for coffee, I'll be thinking how much it will cost.........

There must be light at the end of the tunnel though? I'm prepared to give him the fifth and final chance, if he doesn't get his act together then he's blewn it for good. That sounds harsh but I can only take so much.

:mad: :eek:

saubryn

Does he know you really mean it this time? There comes a point with second chances where people think they will last forever. I hope he listens this time, and I hope you can work things out!

Harloshred

Student grant, you said fifth chance: there's your answer!
I don't want to sound hard but you don't have kids etc so it is easier (but not easy) and sometimes we have to be selfish and as hard as it is to accept, sometimes our partners take the pi$$ and often only learn when its them hard where it hurts.
I can totally empathise with the trust bit.
Good luck.