We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

have i done the right thing?

Options
regret70
regret70 Posts: 216 Forumite
Hi

after months of getting myself in debt i have sunk deeper into depression and have now defaulted on 2 loans and an overdraft. i havent slept properly for ages and feel so sick.

i have contacted cccs this morning and agreed a DMP, have i done the right thing?

i was told to make token payments this month, i get paid tomorrow, and they will then set up the plan.

have i done right???
LBM- may2010:A

Comments

  • EmzJenks
    EmzJenks Posts: 218 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Hiya
    Not an expert I'm afraid, but it sounds like you've done the right thing & getting help. I think a DMP was the best thing for you & your situation to take the right steps forward to sorting your debt :)
  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    If you cannot afford your monthly payments and are getting further into debt then being proactive in dealing with it is definitely a good thing.

    The fact that you have gone to CCCS and not a company that will charge you fees is also a good thing :)

    If CCCS have recommended a DMP then I would imagine that is best for you - I assume they have explained the implications, such as not getting any more credit and the likelihood of getting defaults on any other debts in the DMP?

    Did they give you a letter to make token payments with? if not there is one on here you can use .
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.php?p=21937969&postcount=52
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
  • regret70
    regret70 Posts: 216 Forumite
    thanks! phewww that is a relief. i have also owned up to my husband today so its been a tough day. also my mom has gone into surgery this afternoon so i dont know how i have managed today!

    the cccs were really helpful and nice on the phone just as long as the creditors accept my payments all will work out i suppose. the cccs estimated i would be debt free in 3.5 years and what a relief that would be!

    thanks :)
    LBM- may2010:A
  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    I hope your mom is okay.
    And well done for owning up to your husband. If you have any questions about your DMP as it gets started you will find lots of help and support over on the debt free wannabe board - http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/forumdisplay.php?f=76

    including this thread https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2388003 which is a support thread for people starting DMPs in the last couple of month.
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 350.9K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.5K Spending & Discounts
  • 243.9K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 598.8K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.9K Life & Family
  • 257.2K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.