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  • Pooky
    Pooky Posts: 7,023 Forumite
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    Elfen - I've no idea what to say, I'm not sure words even help when you're feeling like this but you've got a great bunch of friends here, we're here when and if you need us and we'll do our best to try and help.
    "Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,878 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    elfen wrote: »
    She left me, like everyone else who said was gonna help, she abandoned me. I don't know if I can trust anyone anymore....they keep saying oh you can cope on your own and i CANT. I'm not strong enough to go back and be let down again

    But you have to try~just for you.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,878 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    ZTD wrote: »
    Karaoke. You get to screech loudly, late at night, and annoy all the neighbours.

    It's a better substitute... ;)

    Ahem, you have so not heard my singing:rotfl::rotfl:
    Could think of much better substitutes:rotfl:
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    beanielou wrote: »
    Ahem, you have so not heard my singing:rotfl::rotfl:
    Could think of much better substitutes:rotfl:

    Pray tell...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    shes 16 i think may be 17 end of the year
    Boiler pot £30.92/£1000
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,878 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    That is just every parents nightmare Claire.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • katsu
    katsu Posts: 5,029 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    16 feels too young to have that responsiblity, doesn't it.
    Debt at highest: £8k. Debt Free 31/12/2009. Original MFD May 2036, MF Dec 2018.
  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    sorry was listing more stuff on ebay,

    Suprising how many bnwt clothes i had and haven't worn!!

    yes i think 16 is very young
    Boiler pot £30.92/£1000
  • tenmah
    tenmah Posts: 2,209 Forumite
    Hi Elfen

    Glad you are back posting. Keep talking to us, we may not have all the answers, or any answers, but we are here to listen.
    OD [STRIKE] £2600 [/STRIKE] £0 :j Loan [STRIKE]£9500.00[/STRIKE] £0 :j Car [STRIKE]£3150[/STRIKE] £0 :j Moving Costs [STRIKE]£1300[/STRIKE] £0 :j Savings £1150 :j

    Everytime I hear the 'dirty' word Exercise, I wash my mouth out with chocolate!
  • elfen
    elfen Posts: 10,213 Forumite
    im going to get through to my exam....then im going to get help, i have lots of time then to sort out what i need to sort out. I'm also going to stop dieting, and eat what i can keep down safely...

    I know you're all here for me too, and thank you all
    ** Total debt: £6950.82 ± May NSDs 1/10 **
    ** Fat Bum Shrinking: -7/56lbs **
    **SPC 2012 #1498 -£152 and 1499 ***
    I do it all because I'm scared.
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