Weekly Flylady Thread 29th March 2010

Emzy81

rosepink1984 wrote: »

Very depressed,can't fly, hardly functioning. Sorry not read thread. Want to cry, but may never stop. Want to sleep but nightmares are so bad I can't risk it.

Rosepink whats wrong hun? if you need to talk pm me. So sorry to hear your feeling so low xx

serena

rose my poppet, is anyone with you?

eta - a flylady every minute!

gratefulforhelp_2

emzy read last week's thread, these KHs do get their comeuppance, but we have to wait! I waited 7 years, but it was worth it!

valli its very important as a divorced man to drive round in a flash car, regardless of the fact that he is making an incomplete/no contribution to either the work or costs of having children. Don't you know that?????

rose darling, cry if you need to, you can't cry forever, I have tried! Eventually you will be so tired you will sleep without nightmares. Can you offer it up to God? He's close by and right there with you in this. Can you set a tiny little target and make it? Walk round your flat once? Wash up a teaspoon? Make a cup of tea? Hugs hugs hugs. Begone! black woofer.

Ishtar

Rosepink, sorry you're feeling so down - I've been in a similar situation before. I wanted to send you some hugs, and to let you know I'm thinking of you.

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Also, hugs to everyone going through a difficult time (and a swift kick in the pants to anyone's KH who's causing difficulty....)

Flying-wise I've spent the morning pottering around...and I managed to do 1.5 hours worth of ironing....just got to fit it into the drawers now!

And...DS has finally taken a couple of steps!!! Yay!

Take care all
Enjoy the rest of your day
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x

Triker

I'm going out, off on the hunt for miso soup as I rather like it.

Be back laters, gators. x

helen_jelly

Mumof2 wrote: »

Oh great, the dog's run off. She does this sometimes; runs up and down checking for possible escape routes and then p***es off. Last time the chap over the road had her, he fed her a joint of beef and she was very happy to be there (luckily her IBS didn't flare up). Normally she hangs around by someone who then calls us (got our number on the tag) and back she comes looking very guilty.

We love this little dog, but she's a complete pain in the a*se, runs off at any opportunity, steals food, eats chicken poo, savages any mail that comes through the letter box ....... I could go on!

I have a dog the same as yours only mine chases and tries to bite any cars or bikes that happen to be passing him as I manically try to catch him - garden is now ultra dog proof and back door and front door are locked behind us if even if we are just putting bins out cos he can open the doors! So you have my sympathy. I've brought our small estate to a standstill one morning [school run time] as I've stopped traffic whilst trying to catch him and at the same time being laughed at by 2 blerdy useless builders who thought I looked hilarious as I was chasing him round the cars trying to catch him - he was grounded for life, well not quite but boy was I angry

pigpen wrote: »

ooh... KH has just laid out his priorities.. he is not coming to get the children because he is at the hospital with his latest trollop waiting for her to be discharged.. she has had surgery before, there is no reason she cannot get a taxi or anyone else to collect her.. wonder who got her last time? .. So the children aren't wanted.. he said he'd get them between 1-2.. now it is supposedly half 3.. knowing this crappy hospital it'll be 6 before they even think about discharge.. I may just tell him not to bother if he is that uninterested in them.

If it was OH I would come get the children and he could get a taxi home!

He's a !!!!!! of the highest order - huge calming vibes for you and vibes for something big and heavy dropping on his foot for him

Triker wrote: »

I was going to drag myself out of bed and take my DD's out for tea and give them their easter treats early...

however since DD2 is getting cheeky and pushing boundaries, and despite being asked nicely about 100 times, thinks its ok to shout her head off constantly and DD1 had the cheek to say 'Ignore her she's batty' (meaning me) they can both !!!!off , in fact I'm going to reclaim the tv and I've banned DD1 from having her friend over this weekend too.


Amazing when I feel low how many people take advantage.:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

I like your style woman

Helen

mumofjusttwo

Rosepink ((hugs))

Pigpen :rolleyes:

Well my KH hasn't even contacted the children since mid Feb- so much for needing a divorce so that her can marry his GF. I feel so sorry for my children. It is so difficult for them. I have to just tell them that mummy loves them etc.
I have tidying the living room and DS has had a tidy of his room. I put the Wii on for him and he said he couldn't come down as he was sorting out his shelves Wonder how long it will last.


Sandy-you are in my thoughts and hope that you managed to rest last night.

Dustykitten

Afternoon all

Boddy - hugs for your daughter

Pooh so sorry to hear the news of your cat x

Jue sorry to hear about Gemma

AnW'sMum and Toots - have a wonderful Easter together

Sexy - I'm glad it is all over and wish you many happy days of supply

Serena - congratulations to your DD

Rain here.

We've put the shelves back in DS3's room
Hoovered out the car
WM and DW done
lunch done

Booked our summer holiday :j

Sandy - thinking of you

Carlsberg hope you are having a lovely weekend break

kazmeister

Piggers - I know it wont help you but I have two words to say TOTAL F***WIT

Mumof2 wrote: »

Oh great, the dog's run off. She does this sometimes; runs up and down checking for possible escape routes and then p***es off. Last time the chap over the road had her, he fed her a joint of beef and she was very happy to be there (luckily her IBS didn't flare up). Normally she hangs around by someone who then calls us (got our number on the tag) and back she comes looking very guilty.

We love this little dog, but she's a complete pain in the a*se, runs off at any opportunity, steals food, eats chicken poo, savages any mail that comes through the letter box ....... I could go on!

Mum, have to take a step back and read your post as if its someone elses, its hilarious but so loving too

rosepink1984 wrote: »

Very depressed,can't fly, hardly functioning. Sorry not read thread. Want to cry, but may never stop. Want to sleep but nightmares are so bad I can't risk it.

My dear Rose, I am sure you are reading these responses through tears and wish I could help you dry them in some way. Our hearts go out to you when you are having such a desperate time. I really hope you can find just 1 positive thing to start to help pull you from the depths. Just remember we are all here for you, BIG HUGS

Ok been and bought paint
DD home from sleepover and was in a strop as I wouldnt buy her stuff in town but has now crashed out on her bed fully clothed coat n all
DW reloaded
and doogie curled up on my lap (but not for long work to be done)

greenbee

I am going to attempt to get the utillity room, loo and bathroom thoroughly sorted out today, in the hope that I will then make progress with the rest of the house over the weekend...

Freegler who wanted to come and collect this afternoon has, of course, not bothered to reply to my email asking for a time... I don't know why I bother with it sometimes... although I really don't want to have to try to get rid of the paving stones on my own!