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Lucifa73

bank_of_slate wrote: »

:grouphug:
Are you going to reply Luc or sit on it for a while?
It seems that she's jumped to conclusions on all counts there.
Do you set her straight and try to move on or let her think what she likes?
...Linda xx

I have replied but want to speak to her too.

I would like to speak to you on Tuesday as it is by far the better way to resolve these things but want to respond in writing also in case I get too upset to be coherent...

I apologised to M in the taxi on the way home and told her I would have got a taxi alone if necessary.

Your attempts at arranging a lift were very appreciated but I still have some hang ups form the assault and I don't cope with taxis very well in general, less so with strangers.

I had budgetted to travel by train but was persuaded to stay and share a taxi home with M. I certainly didn't have the money to pay to get in somewhere else. I actually have a card with £25 in my bag from the last time my JSA cleared to give to M next time I see her because I know if I offer it to her outright she'll turn me down. I did give the money she lent me for drinks until I got to the cash machine back to her about halfway through the night.

Those are the facts. Take them as you will. I am sorry I have annoyed or upset you in this way.

Can I as why you didn't say anything the Tuesday I was there after the night out?

Look forward to clearing the air on Tuesday.

(Land_of)_Maz

oh Luc - worra nightmare.... women are just a bunch of !!!!!es sometimes....

for what it's worth, i think people who come together for a common purpose like pnd, or whatever are are only ever transient friendships as for the most part people do move on and leave the reason to stay friends behind...

perfect time to cut the ties and make a new set of friends for the new chapters coming in your life...

bloddy snooty biatch in my opinion is that person tho....

(Land_of)_Maz

Lucifa73 wrote: »

Will stick it in the post on Tuesday x

and i shall reimburse your postage costs......

I'm looking forward to trying loadsa frocks on!

Lucifa73

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

oh Luc - worra nightmare.... women are just a bunch of !!!!!es sometimes....

for what it's worth, i think people who come together for a common purpose like pnd, or whatever are are only ever transient friendships as for the most part people do move on and leave the reason to stay friends behind...

perfect time to cut the ties and make a new set of friends for the new chapters coming in your life...

bloddy snooty biatch in my opinion is that person tho....

I guess I was to blame kind of but I can't see how it was any of her business?

bank_of_slate

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

and i shall reimburse your postage costs......

I'm looking forward to trying loadsa frocks on!

We'll need pics so we can help you choose!
...Linda xx

Lucifa73

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

and i shall reimburse your postage costs......

I'm looking forward to trying loadsa frocks on!

Put it in a kitty to fund the travel to the next DFW meet;)

bank_of_slate

Lucifa73 wrote: »

I guess I was to blame kind of but I can't see how it was any of her business?

It wasn't!
I wouldn't be at all surprised if it's her that's started the 'whisperings behind your back.'
Your reply was excellent, if she isn't ok with you on Tuesday then she's not worth bothering with!
...Linda xx

true27

Oh Luc, hugs - for what its worth I agree with everything Linda has said, but I really hope it works out and you get some resolution on Tuesday.

Chin up hun xx

true27

Lucifa73 wrote: »

Put it in a kitty to fund the travel to the next DFW meet;)

Ooo a DFW meet?? Is this a regular thing?

Lucifa73

bank_of_slate wrote: »

It wasn't!
I wouldn't be at all surprised if it's her that's started the 'whisperings behind your back.'
Your reply was excellent, if she isn't ok with you on Tuesday then she's not worth bothering with!
...Linda xx

Thanks Linda. Hopefully I will get the job, start work and then I won't miss the group so much because it has been a lifeline (almost as good as on here!)
when things were bad and gave me a reason to go out at least once a week.