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Loopy_Girl wrote: »Yes but the problem is that you automatically assume that every PWC that comes on here is like the one you describe above AKA your ex.
She's treated you like !!!!!!...okay, okay, we get it but can't you just see past that rather than, instead of doing something constructive to get your seething anger out, come on here and speak to every PWC as if they are the crap of the earth. And you do
I have never seen you speak to a PWC in a pleasant way or try and help.
You are clouded by your ex relationship and the fact by the sounds of it you don't stay in a very nice area and are exposed to the worst of the worst lone parents.
I'd never see my child in second hand shoes...christ knows what you could pick up from them:eek: but I go out and work harder/more hours to get brand new....nothing like your ex but of course us PWC are all like her *yawn*
You go on and on about childs best interests, contact yaka yaka and yet the bitterness and anger in you must be affecting your poor child...probably more than the (apparant) crap life she has with her Mum
and yet more vile rubbish from you too.
just cos you got a sh1tty nrp, doen't mean we're all like it.
i'll help pwc or nrp depending on their situations.
not you though. you're beyond help.NEVER ARGUE WITH AN IDIOT. THEY'LL DRAG YOU DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL AND BEAT YOU WITH EXPERIENCE.
and, please. only thank when appropriate. not to boost idiots egos.0 -
If that is the case then it is a remarkable coincidence that the amount my Husband had to pay increased significantly after we got married and the CSA bullied us into giving my details by telling us they would double the amount he had to pay as an interim measure until they received my details.
I woulld have told them to pee off .I have always been on a cat b assesment due to my "non compliant wife" Should i have stole her wageslips out of her files for the CSA0 -
See that's the difference between you and me....I know that not all NRP's are like mine (thankfully) whereas you don't with PWC - they are all like your ex. Period
And no, you've never helped a PWC. Ever. The bitterness running through your veins stops you even if you could.
And the kind of help you offer is no good to me...I like people to know what they are talking about for a start, and also have an objective view.
The sooner you get PPR'd the better0 -
I can't believe Speedy would buy his daughter 2nd hand shoes... that's shocking..... his daughter must be well chuffed!!!Be who you are, say what you feel, those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.They say that talking to yourself is a sign of mental illness. So I talk to the cats instead.0
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missmontana wrote: »I can't believe Speedy would buy his daughter 2nd hand shoes... that's shocking..... his daughter must be well chuffed!!!
no. just not a snob or so stuck up my own azz that i look down on perfectly good second hand clothing. unlike some......................
most of our kids clothes are charity shop and ebay specials.NEVER ARGUE WITH AN IDIOT. THEY'LL DRAG YOU DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL AND BEAT YOU WITH EXPERIENCE.
and, please. only thank when appropriate. not to boost idiots egos.0 -
no. just not a snob or so stuck up my own azz that i look down on perfectly good second hand clothing. unlike some......................
most of our kids clothes are charity shop and ebay specials.
I'm glad you're not my dad!!! I'm not stuck up my own backside, Blimey, I dress head to toe in Primark most days, that's actually usually cheaper than the charity shops!!Be who you are, say what you feel, those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.They say that talking to yourself is a sign of mental illness. So I talk to the cats instead.0
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