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A journey of a 1000 miles must begin with single footstep....

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  • Herewego
    Herewego Posts: 2,541 Forumite
    You wont be judged by us but thats upto you if you post it here, just worry about you when you do things out of the ordinary.
    PM me if you want to just here to listen not judge, how can i when im in such a mess myself.
    MARCH 2016 DEBT £25750/ £25035
    EST DFD JAN 2021 (that needs to change)
    NOW JAN 2019 (that still needs to change)
  • Woowoo
    Woowoo Posts: 4,603 Forumite
    Me and the OH have spent the last few days talking about seperating, we've been together 10 years nearly so it's a very emotional time. It may all work out, what will be will be.
    LBM Aug 09: £18,650.47 - Current: £12,854.93 (£5946.79)

    Barclays: £2,928.34 Lloyds: £2,499.60
    MBNA: £3,788.99 Overdraft: £1,900.00 Mum: £1,738.00

    Surveys: £6.60/£40.00
  • Herewego
    Herewego Posts: 2,541 Forumite
    We are here if you need us, they say absence makes the heart grow fonder I hope everything works out for the best
    MARCH 2016 DEBT £25750/ £25035
    EST DFD JAN 2021 (that needs to change)
    NOW JAN 2019 (that still needs to change)
  • REDMADCURLS
    REDMADCURLS Posts: 3,766 Forumite
    Awh honey, thats very hard regardless of the circumstances.

    I am pretty confident that no-one here will judge you but understand your apprehension.

    I am sad for you and hope you feel better/at peace soon!
    LBM Feb 2010 £62,700 Total Debt Jan 11 [STRIKE]£49,403.84[/STRIKE] £47,530.32.
    (CC/LOAN = [STRIKE]36,378.98[/STRIKE] 35668.47. O/D = [STRIKE]1255.32[/STRIKE] 1212.35/[STRIKE]1999.78[/STRIKE] 1934.52, BUS = [STRIKE]9769.76[/STRIKE] 8714.98)
    Challenge = Debt at 31/01/12 = £25k. 2011 Payments = £1,944.19/£24,403.84

    There is no point in negative thought, it takes up time and energy which could be used in a positive, happy way!
  • hope you are ok wishing you wellxx
  • Lemon_Tree
    Lemon_Tree Posts: 10,202 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts
    sending you ((((((hugs ))))) Woo, hope things work out for the best, you know where we are if you need us, either here publically or via pm.
  • Woowoo
    Woowoo Posts: 4,603 Forumite
    Thanks, just need some thinking time x
    LBM Aug 09: £18,650.47 - Current: £12,854.93 (£5946.79)

    Barclays: £2,928.34 Lloyds: £2,499.60
    MBNA: £3,788.99 Overdraft: £1,900.00 Mum: £1,738.00

    Surveys: £6.60/£40.00
  • Lemon_Tree
    Lemon_Tree Posts: 10,202 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts
    standing by with the fire extinguisher!




    sorry i'll go hide in a corner, i don't know where that came from, and it was certainly uncalled for.
  • rachelww1
    rachelww1 Posts: 680 Forumite
    sorry to hear that. I'm sure you'll both come to the right decision for both of you. It is hard, but you seem to have lots of people on here who will support and not judge you whatever the outcome.
    LBM Dec 10. Total unsecured debt £41176 :eek: Nov 12 Debt Free Thanks Mum x RIP x

    2013 Savings £250
    2013 OP £3500
  • LittleMoog
    LittleMoog Posts: 2,392 Forumite
    Woowoo wrote: »
    Thanks, just need some thinking time x

    Oh Woo, I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sure you'll come to the right decision for you, but this can't be an easy time *hugs*
    Little monkey born November 2012:j
    Froglet due March 2016 :D
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