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Should this be reported?

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  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    I would suggest that your friend contacts the Adult Care team at your local social services department, or the LADO (Local Authority Designated Officer), again at your council, who has responsibility for the safeguarding of children and vulnerable adults.
  • Unreal, poor kid :( you should report this
    Blackpool_Saver is female, and does not live in Blackpool

  • MrsAnnie
    MrsAnnie Posts: 679 Forumite
    WASHER wrote: »
    Is she just left in a corner to occupy herself for most of the day?

    Personally, I would be inclined to get social services involved, your friend cannot be expected to care for her nor should this disabled girl have to looked after by her fathers work colleagues.


    The work colleagues interact with her, not sure to what extent though. I don't think she is left in the corner. But without the parent there, she is now their responsiblity for the whole work day :( which IMO is just not right.
    I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he ha
    s had to overcome while trying to succeed. Booker T Washington
  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    i think if your friend's colleague has agreed for this with management and there willing to be responsible it has nothing to do with your or your friend and you should keep your nose out
    Replies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you
  • MrsAnnie
    MrsAnnie Posts: 679 Forumite
    floss2 wrote: »
    I would suggest that your friend contacts the Adult Care team at your local social services department, or the LADO (Local Authority Designated Officer), again at your council, who has responsibility for the safeguarding of children and vulnerable adults.


    Many thanks for this info. I will look them up.
    I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he ha
    s had to overcome while trying to succeed. Booker T Washington
  • MrsAnnie
    MrsAnnie Posts: 679 Forumite
    jamespir wrote: »
    i think if your friend's colleague has agreed for this with management and there willing to be responsible it has nothing to do with your or your friend and you should keep your nose out


    Management is not the one looking after her for 8 hours a day. :(
    I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he ha
    s had to overcome while trying to succeed. Booker T Washington
  • WASHER
    WASHER Posts: 1,347 Forumite
    jamespir wrote: »
    i think if your friend's colleague has agreed for this with management and there willing to be responsible it has nothing to do with your or your friend and you should keep your nose out

    It has everything to do with her friend, her friend is expected to care for the disabled girl whilst the father is not in the office.

    I second floss post, do contact them.
  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    WASHER wrote: »
    It has everything to do with her friend, her friend is expected to care for the disabled girl whilst the father is not in the office.

    I second floss post, do contact them.

    yeah such nice people you are report him get his daughter taken of hes gonna love that

    if the freind really has a problem he should report it to his line manager
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  • Zazen999
    Zazen999 Posts: 6,183 Forumite
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    What's the actual 'job' is it an office environment or [for example] a care home?

    Are you 100% sure that she hasn't been taken on the payroll for some reason?
  • WASHER
    WASHER Posts: 1,347 Forumite
    They will do everything they can to help the father and the disabled daughter, they will not take the daughter away from her father, maybe the SS could sort some respite day care for her whilst the father works.

    James, do not make the OP or her friend feel quilty for wanting to speak to someone about this, I certainly would not care for one of my colleagues children whilst I'm at work, I'm at work to work, not to provide a carers role.
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