Fabulous New Fashion chat - Dressed up or Down - Everyone Welcome!!

lostinrates

Bronnie, those shoes are MUCH nicer. Nothing of the cruise ship about them (and the wedge version of the flats I saw on moda in pelle when looking for you...:))

MarzipanFish

aww, i've lost nice earings too. And tons of the claires accessories studs i used to buy. The leftover ones are noticeboard pins.

The charms are cute, i should really get making something with them but i feel guilty starting projects that aren't work when i've got lots to do. Somehow wasting time on the internet feels less bad even though it's worse

retro_bluebell

Hey girls

Im so sorry about my outburst earlier Im finding everything a tad too hard atm....Im not coping with anything to be honest...I had a major screaming/ crying fit at OH earlier for some stupid reason.......hes gone off to Tescos of all places now no idea when or even if he will be back

I fear he ugly head of depression may be rearing up again...I dont know why Im just finding it really hard to be happy about anything atm Im so lonely atm I have no one to talk to except OH and he just doesnt get it sometimes...Im so bad i even said I hated him atm...which I dont and I find it a really strong word and try not to use it anyway...feel like Im losing my marbles.

Sorry dont want to bring everyone down (again) anyone chuck me a hug over i feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself...

lostinrates

retro_bluebell wrote: »

Hey girls

Im so sorry about my outburst earlier Im finding everything a tad too hard atm....Im not coping with anything to be honest...I had a major screaming/ crying fit at OH earlier for some stupid reason.......hes gone off to Tescos of all places now no idea when or even if he will be back

I fear he ugly head of depression may be rearing up again...I dont know why Im just finding it really hard to be happy about anything atm Im so lonely atm I have no one to talk to except OH and he just doesnt get it sometimes...Im so bad i even said I hated him atm...which I dont and I find it a really strong word and try not to use it anyway...feel like Im losing my marbles.

Sorry dont want to bring everyone down (again) anyone chuck me a hug over i feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself...

Stop it stop it. You didn't outburst, you questioned. That what people with minds do. I'd hate i if we became a group who couldn't , for example, tell bronnie to look for other shoes!

Maybe you need some cuddling? Can you grap a bath leaving oh with kids? or share abath and a nice drink when they are safely fast asleep? (now?)

xxvickixx

Oh Retro, what are we going to do with you?
Sending you a big squishy hug xx
If you want to talk to someone we're all here for you lovely.

lostinrates

piratefairy wrote: »

I guess bronnie, but i would just prefer a girl, someone to be able to dress up with and pass on the love of shoes..lol

I want/wanted a boy. No doubt. DH would like/would have liked a girl.

piratefairy

Retro I know how tough that feeling can be on the brink of feeling like youre falling into that hole of depression again..it can be the toughest thnng to try and fight. And the most difficult thing to try to explain to someone else..I usually feel pathetic for feeling depressed as though I feel like I hav no right to feel that way..
If you want to talk, Ill happily pm you my number xx
(hugs)

xxvickixx

We so, so badly wanted a boy. I'm sure If we found out we were having a girl we would have grown to love the idea though. That sounds really awful but it's just how we felt at the time.

lostinrates

xxvickixx wrote: »

We so, so badly wanted a boy. I'm sure If we found out we were having a girl we would have grown to love the idea though. That sounds really awful but it's just how we felt at the time.

when I was born they told my mother she'd had a boy (mistake!) and my mother told them to look again, because she couldn't possibly have: she'd put a lot of energy in to a girl...she was right!
My sister cried when she saw one of her girls and didn't want it because ''it looks like a tortoise''. That girl is now very, very beautiful, stop and stare kind of pretty, so....tortoise babies can come good too. :rotfl:

Bronnie

Retro, take it easy with yourself, hun!

Nobody was offended by your post, so forget that! Similarly I've got kids and didn't find the comments offensive in the least...............but I also know there are days when I find it easy to misinterpret everything ( sometimes deliberately, sometimes not , depending on how perverse I'm feeling!!!!) Recognising these mindsets helps a bit anyway.

BTW, you look sensational on your blog pics with your waist cinched in. You vixen! ( in the absence of the other vixen!!)