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  • Alexnikov
    Alexnikov Posts: 2,411 Forumite
    Ugh so tired, and my cold seems to be coming back with a vengeance, but guides coffee evening went well, and I have dates sorted to do my camp licence now also :-/ think that's a good thing, something else for me to work towards at least.

    Let me know if you need to bounce ideas off anyone - I think I can just about remember doing mine :)

    Today's outfit is quite plain but I've gone a bit mad with blue accessories:

    Indigo skinnies - Primark
    Bright blue 3/4 sleeved tshirt - Dotty P
    Black sleeveless jumper - Primark
    Navy pumps - Primark

    Blue shell polo style earrings - ancient
    Turquoise "a" necklace - Sunday Girl
    Blue beaded necklace - Accessorize
    Blue chunky beaded necklace - Dotty P
    Blue, grey and white stripy silk scarf - National Trust shop (with my handy staff discount :) )
    And the blue sequinned headband from Primark - I was sorely tempted to wear this celtic style but thought I might get laughed at :o
  • retro_bluebell
    retro_bluebell Posts: 1,276 Forumite
    Oh and my outfit is totally boring today..I am finding it a struggle to get dressed in anything but jeans at the minute...doesnt seem worth putting on a nice skirt of Im not going anywhere so I am wearing:

    blue flared jeans: m and s via ebay
    black cami: tescos
    white mock wrap ditsy floral top with ruffle front
    green bangle
    green dragonfly necklace
    green dangly earrings
    red converse trainers
    green bomber jacket and gloves when I went out.....

    Want my cat back in :(
    **"Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin."**
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Want my cat back in :(


    Cats love this game. ;) make mummy worry.

    I have long learned that trying to catch a cat is a fools errand. The trick is to try and get the cat to catch you: for which you have to look totally bored and involved in something you cat would be interested in. Do you have a cardboard box anywhere, throwing balls or balled of rolled up paper into a box is a great game.

    Otherwise anything tied to a string is fun, more so if it rustles.

    go in side, leave a door/window open and fill a bowl with food, (cat might her the box/tin...)

    edit: I actually clicker train my cats, and return is something now very, very well ingrained. Make sure to give your cat something especially yummy when it comes in.
  • Alexnikov
    Alexnikov Posts: 2,411 Forumite
    Morning lovelies!

    Im getting the run around my cat who usually doesnt go out...I have been letting him out for a bit every day and this morning hes just gone off! Ive seen him a couple of times in the back garden but the he disapears again! Ive never had a cat before so Im a bit panicked that hes going to get lost and not come back...Ive even (ok this is embarressing) phoned OH at work to say what should I do??? Hes grown up with cats and said just leave him he will get bored...cant focus my mind until hes back Im sat here with the laptop next to the back door freezing! Any cat owners please calm me down??

    He'll come back Sharon, don't worry too much! We had the same thing with our cat when we moved house - he had to stay in for a couple of weeks and we were both sat there nearly crying when we let him out for the first time and he promptly hopped over the garden fence :o

    He'll know where home is and he'll come back when he wants lunch :)
  • Morning! I'm loving my newfound fashionista side. I bought some gorgeous brown leather cowboy boots on eBay last night so I can't wait for them to come!

    Today's outfit-
    Tres skinny grey jeans, Primark (3 months post-partum, get me!)
    Long sleeved grey and black striped top, Asda
    Grey long cardi with cerise, White and turquoise detail, Primark
    Studded brown ankle boots, M&S
    :DYummy mummy, runner, baker and procrastinator :p
  • retro_bluebell
    retro_bluebell Posts: 1,276 Forumite
    Thank you I know Im being daft -hes just ran right back in and went straight for his food...lil !!!!!!! He will probably sleep all day now...To be honest I haven't let him out at a younger age (hes just over 1 now) because I am worried about him getting run over or taken by a chav or something but he has gotten really depressed and would sit at the window meowing all day :( I think he was only in next doors garden lol

    Lost whats clicker training?
    **"Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin."**
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Lost whats clicker training?


    http://www.clickertraining.com/ is probably a good explanation although haven't looked at the website myself. Before clicking, and still now, I used more basic (and more me) reward based conditioning. Clicking is a technique that's now quite popular and thus I wanted to truly understand it. I find, the key difference is in helping me with timing and thinking through a training issue, not in their end so much compared to my own methods.
  • daisybella
    daisybella Posts: 3,713 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Got it- hurrah for new boots :)

    Retro- Flash does a vanishing act every now and again. He comes home when his stomach rumbles :p
  • retro_bluebell
    retro_bluebell Posts: 1,276 Forumite
    http://www.clickertraining.com/ is probably a good explanation although haven't looked at the website myself. Before clicking, and still now, I used more basic (and more me) reward based conditioning. Clicking is a technique that's now quite popular and thus I wanted to truly understand it. I find, the key difference is in helping me with timing and thinking through a training issue, not in their end so much compared to my own methods.


    Oh thats really interesting I will have a good look at the site thanks! I did get him in the other day by shaking his biscuit box but made the mistake today of giving him food before he went out...doh...Im so not used to cats I grew up with dogs that generally will do anything for a biscuit lol
    **"Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin."**
  • medsdemon
    medsdemon Posts: 761 Forumite

    Want my cat back in :(


    I have always had cats and let me reassure you they always come back. it's quite scary letting them out for the first times but they have great instincts and will be back to eat and for somewhere safe to sleep:)
    Grocery challenge October: £228.28/£250.00 NSD 4 ( not completed)
    Grocery challenge November : £291.65/300.00 NSD 10
    Grocery challenge December : £0/240.00 NSD
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