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No idea on a Wedding Dress!

Please help a MSE lurker!

Have read all your brilliant tips for a while now, and finally, out of the blue we are engaged and planning a summer wedding!

It will be a small affair, and I want it to be stress free and relaxed.

I have never dreamed of the BIG dress, but want something I wouldn't normally wear.

I have looked online at a few things, Monsoon, bridal shops etc. But nothing yet.

I a size 18 with HUGE boobs, making strapless a no-go (or does anyone disagree?).

I also have alot of scarring on ym arms due to a skin condition (I know that I sound a real catch!) and so want to cover them up, sleeves or lace shrug type thing.

Due to moving house, exams and general life I will have limited time, can anyone recommend a couple of good places to go and try on as many different styles as poss to try and get an idea??

I live in North London, and am also not averse to getting a dress made.

Budget - no fixed idea, but not over £500 ideally!
Give yourself a Chistmas bonus £14 a week!
Total so far £28
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  • anderson8
    anderson8 Posts: 1,224 Forumite
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    Please help a MSE lurker!

    Have read all your brilliant tips for a while now, and finally, out of the blue we are engaged and planning a summer wedding!

    It will be a small affair, and I want it to be stress free and relaxed.

    I have never dreamed of the BIG dress, but want something I wouldn't normally wear.

    I have looked online at a few things, Monsoon, bridal shops etc. But nothing yet.

    I a size 18 with HUGE boobs, making strapless a no-go (or does anyone disagree?).

    I also have alot of scarring on ym arms due to a skin condition (I know that I sound a real catch!) and so want to cover them up, sleeves or lace shrug type thing.

    Due to moving house, exams and general life I will have limited time, can anyone recommend a couple of good places to go and try on as many different styles as poss to try and get an idea??

    I live in North London, and am also not averse to getting a dress made.

    Budget - no fixed idea, but not over £500 ideally!

    i didnt try a single dress on just ordered mine online from america. im in the same boat as you, im a 16/18 with GG cups but my dress is strapless. the boning and fit of the dress keeps you held in and i never wear anything strapless!
    theres lots of lovely dresses out there, have a look online at what you like the look of.
  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    You may find an organza shrug easier than lace or other fabric sleeves in the summer - it's lighter to wear ;)
  • Thanks anderson8 - can I ask where did you buy your lingerie?

    Am thinking of starting with a corset being made and then fitting the dress around it (so to speak)?

    I am after something a bit hippie and bohemian as want to wear birkenstocks for the whole day!
    Give yourself a Chistmas bonus £14 a week!
    Total so far £28
  • Debenhams do up to a size 20-22 I think, and nice wee lacy cardi type things, boleros, shrugs etc.
    Present yourself, press your clothes, comb your hair, clock in
    You just cant win just cant win... the things you own, own you
  • anderson8
    anderson8 Posts: 1,224 Forumite
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    im not wearing a corset or bra on my day!(if you hadve told me that before i got my dress, i wouldve said you were crazy)
    but my dress totally supports me and "holds me in"
    i did get a nice strapless bra from debenhams when i was a bridesmaid for my sister if that helps any
  • Thanks Carmen, had a good look on Debenhams and found a couple of things I like.

    I am going to try a strapless bra and dress combo tomorrow.

    Anderson, I would be intrigued to know where you got your dress, do you have the website still??

    I have also decided to go to the wedding thing at Olympia - have turned from nothing to wedding hound in 3 days!
    Give yourself a Chistmas bonus £14 a week!
    Total so far £28
  • Gleeful
    Gleeful Posts: 1,979 Forumite
    Thanks anderson8 - can I ask where did you buy your lingerie?

    Am thinking of starting with a corset being made and then fitting the dress around it (so to speak)?

    I am after something a bit hippie and bohemian as want to wear birkenstocks for the whole day!

    I know someone who did that (Birkenstocks)
  • anderson8
    anderson8 Posts: 1,224 Forumite
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    this is the link to the ebay shop i got my dress
    http://stores.ebay.com/The-Bridal-and-Formalwear-eShoppe_Size-14-16_W0QQ_fsubZ2419821QQ_sidZ33459840QQ_trksidZp4634Q2ec0Q2em322

    my dress was a total of £150 including customs charges
    this is it, alfred angelo 1622 brand new

    http://estore.websitepros.com/2083434/Detail.bok?no=9372
  • Lexxi
    Lexxi Posts: 2,162 Forumite
    Bravissimo are really good for underwear. All their staff are larger chested and knowhow important it is to get good fitting underwear, if you can get in to one of their stores then go, they do offer phone advise, I've not tried that though. I'm a F cup, very few places stock my size and most argue with me about what size I am!
  • Thanks guys. Anderson that is a gorgeous dress!

    I am off to Rigby and Peller to get a basque fitted, then monsoon and debenhams to day and the wedding show at Olympia tomorrow.

    Intend then to slim fast for 2 months and then buy the dress! That is enough time for 23rd July??

    Have also seen my Birks, Heidi Klum limited edition ones!
    Give yourself a Chistmas bonus £14 a week!
    Total so far £28
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