Fired for Gross Misconduct - where to go now?

dickydonkin

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Mate,

Two things:

Firstly, I assume you've seen all my comments (if not, they were pretty amusing jokes about those in charge at catlick schools and their sexual prefreences that have been censored by nazis)

Two things:..........Mate

First, I suspect that the OP is not your 'Mate' certainly after the bile you posted about him.

Second, I would imagine very few people (other than those with the same warped mind as yours) would find your 'jokes' as 'pretty' or 'amusing'.

If any proof (if any was needed) that this forum needs moderators, then this thread compounds that view.

Offensive comments and persistent offenders posting abuse (I think we know who they are) are bringing this forum into disrepute.

Another forum I involve myself in is STRICTLY moderated with offenders suspended or barred and I can assure you it is a better place to be.

On the forum I mentioned (not my opinion BTW) a poster made reference to the MSE forum site and he stated it was 'Cliquey and Abusive' and would never use it again.

Well if this thread is anything to go by, his latter description cannot be disputed.

The OP has used this forum in the hope of obtaining advice and there have been some constructive suggestions given, however, what the OP did not ask for was veiled accusations and sexual innuendos which were groundless and based only on the environment he worked in.

99.9% of the people on here use their own time to offer advice which is admirable, however, it is the minority of idiots who are 'tarring everyone with the same brush'.

Come on Martin Lewis, get it sorted!

HellsGranny

radyellow wrote: »

I can not be forthcoming with a detailed account of events because the fear of someone from that College recognises me.
They tried to ruin my career, bullied me out of my job, disposed of my possessions whilst I was on sick leave and made me have nervous breakdown.

Sorry, I'm probably being dense here, but why do you fear these people so much?

As it is a Church College, are you perhaps of a faith that they feel is incompatible with Christianity? This can be dealt with under the Religious Intolerance laws, discrimination is now illegal on religious grounds.

I undestand that they hounded you out of your job, that is bad enough, but to dispose of your possessions is THEFT, and you should claim compensation at least, if not going for a conviction.

A nervous breakdown will make you feel extremely vulnerable, I understand, I've been there myself. One thing I taught myself is to stop feeling guilt where none exists. By worrying and dwelling on what these folk have done you are giving them power over you.

If you have done nothing wrong then you must stop feeling guilty and start telling yourself that you are as good as anybody else, and nobody has the right to tell you otherwise.

Get angry with them, not yourself, neither feel sorry for yourself needlessly.

There is and never will be another person entirely like you in the Universe. You are Unique, and therefore, irreplaceable, so get out there, hold your head up and be YOU!

Cheers, HG