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Wrongly accused of Stealing
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Apolonation wrote: »Everyone. Stop bickering like children. \
Now. Simply ask them to put up (with proof ) or shut up.
Also advise you are considering sueing for slander. If they instigate official disciplinary then this will be better, then you'll have it in writing and can sue for libel.
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Anihilator wrote: »Crap advice
Any advice to give then? Or just accusations? If the person who reported the theft is also the person who accused you then it sounds pretty fishy to me. Op if you're there then can you possibly elaborate on what has happened so we understand it a bit better?Do good deeds and you could raise the curtain, do good deeds and you could really raise your life....0 -
whinge intr.v. whinged, whing·ing, whing·es Chiefly British To complain or protest, especially in an annoying or persistent manner.0
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Well at the moment the situation seems to be - money went missing, op was asked if they knew about the money - not accused, money reappeared.
As far as I can tell no allegations of theft have been made and no action taken.
The OP has indicated they will be pursuing it.
I would suggest at this stage the OP should do nothing other than ensure they note all activity and ensure they keep records.
If they feel strongly enough about the managers behaviour then they can raise a grievance but I would question whether a manager asking staff if they knew anything about where the money was is anything other than the normal. Certainly if money was unaccounted for in any place I worked the first thing I checked would be that none of the staff had taken it out for genuine reasons.
If the employer does pursue the missing money and this involves the OP then they should report back then with the further actions.0 -
Anihilator wrote: »Crap advice0
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Please get back to the topic and stop making wild assumptions based upon prejudice either for or against the OP's position.
Firstly an accusation without proof, is just that, it has absolutely no standing either in legal or internal employment disciplinary matters. It does not matter who made the accusation and for what motives, it is null and void (anyone interested in the legal connotation of that phrase, it means does not and has never existed).
Unless and until the OP provides any further information or anyone else has any EVIDENCE (a highly unlikely occurance on this forum) all emotive statements should be disregarded and developments should be awaited. If no further evidence is provided of the accusation to the OP she should invoke the company's grievance procedure to establish exactly what has happened.
Jeez the way some people jump to conclusions around here they must miss the ducking stool.0 -
Hi again, sorry I have not made it clear... it is not really that clear to me what happened, I was in the building on the morning of the day the money went missing, the money was present the following morning..... however I did get the promotion (for now) and therefore I have not been back to the building and therefore I am not sure if anyone else has been questioned, I hope they have, but I am getting called down to see the manager next week.
I am not based in the USA, but in the UK.
I really just really want to know without proof (which they wont have because I didnt do it!) can I loose my job??
Thank you again for all your advise.
Worried Worker0 -
Are you in a union at all? They might be able to advise you what may happen. I presume they will have to investigate the matter as per company procedures but they can't accuse you of something without proof.
Can they sack you? I dont think so but Im not certain
Hope it works out for you though0 -
Anihilator wrote: »Theres no explaination of this in her post.Anihilator wrote: »She is trying to say she was set up by a bitter colleague who reported missing money then put it back.
So you admit there is an explanation.Anihilator wrote: »
Allegations she has no proof of.
There is also no explaination as to why senior management though decided it was her and not anyone else with access or are we to believe there all in on the big conspiracy?
It is significant that someone else was involved who had some degree of opportunity and a possible motive which is far stronger than just taking the money for personal gain, which is the only possible motive you could ascribe to the OP. In the face of that, you require something much stronger than circumstantial evidence pointing to a group of people and an accusation from someone with possible personal motive to pin anything on the OP.Hi, we’ve had to remove your signature. If you’re not sure why please read the forum rules or email the forum team if you’re still unsure - MSE ForumTeam0 -
worried_worker wrote: »Hi again, sorry I have not made it clear... it is not really that clear to me what happened, I was in the building on the morning of the day the money went missing, the money was present the following morning..... however I did get the promotion (for now) and therefore I have not been back to the building and therefore I am not sure if anyone else has been questioned, I hope they have, but I am getting called down to see the manager next week.
I am not based in the USA, but in the UK.
I really just really want to know without proof (which they wont have because I didnt do it!) can I loose my job??
Thank you again for all your advise.
Worried Worker
Also you state the money went missing the day you were in the office but returned the next day I assume by the way you say that you were not there the following day when it was put back which begs the question how you then?0
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